The answer all depends on the language used when the shared driveway was created and state laws. It also depends on where exactly she is providing access, over the driveway easement or on her own land. If the land involved was specifically dedicated to a "shared driveway" to be shared by the owners of the abutting properties then she has no right to put the land to another use. You should consult with the attorney who represented you when you purchased the property. Shared driveway easements are an unending source of trouble when one or both owners overstep their rights. You need to check the language in the deeds and determine what state laws govern the easement. For that you need expert legal advice. You should act ASAP.
Defining private parking lot is the question here... The jurisdiction extends if the parking lot is regarded as a public access way... i.e. a mall, a hotel driveway, restaurant parking lot. A true private parking lot is a lot where access is limited by invitation or a private residence.
Yes. Being on private property does not insulate you from law enforcement. If police observe something that warrants a traffic stop, they can make it regardless of whether you are in your driveway, a private parking lot, or a public street. There are some limits to what police can observe on private property, but these generally don't come up in a traffic situation, because it is normally a case where they can see from the public road or the offense occurred on the public road.
You can't do this.
If it's a public driveway then the property owner can charge. If it's a private driveway to a house then no you can't and shouldn't charge to park.
Private property.
An area made publicly accessible, but it is not public property - the parking lot, like the bar, is private property.
If you're parking in their property e.g.: Their own driveway, garage, or a designated area which is part of their property, then yes most likely it's trespassing when you park there. However, if you park at a street which is a public street, then the only restrictions that apply are those of the local government (the state, city, town .. etc). Someone doesn't have any legal support to ask someone to not park at a public parking because it's in front of there house. Out of courtesy, however, most people don't do it. But, again, it's totally legal and as long as it's public parking (street) you can park wherever you want following the rules of parking set by the government.
Avoiding her in public and avoiding her husband in private.
an individual may not stop, stand, or park a vehicle: (1) In front of or within 5 feet of a public driveway, or within a private driveway, without the consent of the owner or occupant of the premises see http://www.municode.com/resources/gateway.asp?pid=10016&sid=20
YES it can and usually is. ONLY if you defaulted on your contract. So, do yourself a favor and park it in a public parking lot and leave the keys in the ashtray. Good reading here on this issue: http://www.cardreport.com/credit-problems/repossession.html
Apartment parking lots are generally considered reserved for the tenants. Certain spots may be designated for guest parking, but any covered stall would definitely be for a resident. Since these parking lots/spaces are on private land, they are considered just that ... private.
We drive on a parkway and park on a driveway because a parkway is defined a "a broad landscaped thoroughfare" and a driveway is defined as "a private road giving access from a public way to a building on abutting grounds."