Your recent EX is coming over tomorrow to talk what do you say to him to win him back without sounding needy or desperate?

Answer 1

• Obviously he is coming over to see you to communicate. Let him start the talking. If he is willing to talk first then you will get a hint as to whether he still cares for you, but if he is not ready to resume the relationship again then you will have saved yourself some embarrassment. If he is shy you can tell how he feels about you by the way he acts. Never be afraid to communicate your own feelings and you could say, 'I really care for you and would like to resume this relationship, but I need to know how you feel and if you are willing then we need to communicate about our feelings more so we don't have so many problems in our relationship.' Don't beg, cry, yell, or get angry at him or you will lose any chance you have of getting back together again. Whatever he says (be it negative) you will have to accept and thank him for at least coming over. Stand tall, be honest and you will win either way.