If you haven't signed them yet, and you haven't any formal separation agreement, and you own the house jointly with your ex, you have as much right to say who lives there as she does. In fact, if she's got a boyfriend and you're not legally separated, that's lawyer fodder depending on the State you're in.
It all depends on your State law concerning joint property and any separation agreement.
This state has regulations concerning how papers must be served on someone. If your boyfriend meets those requirements, he can serve those papers. Since you should have a lawyer if you are going to get a divorce, why don't you ask your lawyer so you will follow the law in your location.
Anywhere
Yes the papers an be served in the state of California.
If you haven't been served with divorce papers, then you aren't divorced no matter what he says.
Today as divorce cases are on the increase in all the states including California , the papers will soon be served out as the pile of papers just increase and make it difficult for everybody.
You are supposed to be served with the divorce papers in less than 90 days.
They'll serve you in jail
Check with your attorney to see if the papers are served. Or check with the server that you used to serve the wife. When the divorce papers are served the server has to report it to court that the papers have been served so check the court records if your attorney is not available to answer your questions.
Ask her.
well don't get any divorce
The same way anyone else files for divorce. You have your attorney draw up the necessary papers and have them served in prison. The only difference is the location - others are served the papers at home, and his will be served in prison.
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