Denial is a hallmark characteristic of alcoholics and addicts. Therefore, convincing them that there is a problem and that treatment is necessary becomes a difficult task. While some alcoholics continue functioning for years without apparent consequences there are others for whom repercussions are frequent and major. A gentle, non-accusatory approach is best where the person is told how their drinking is affecting their relationships, work and behavior and that sobriety provides an appropriate solution. Once you can get a loved one to agree to treatment it is helpful and encouraging to accompany them in the beginning to their appointments to provide support and ensure they are being honest with those trying to help.
Alcoholism is a devastating disease that affect the alcoholic and everyone around him or her. Finding treatment for the alcoholic is possible, so long as the person suffering from alcoholism is willing to get help. There are a variety of treatment programs, some very expensive and others which are state paid, but all are effective if the alcoholic has the desire to get clean and maintain sobriety.
Try to get the alcoholic some help, if being an alcoholic is the problem then solve the problem, try to help the alcoholic. But there would need to be more information, are they in a relationship, roomates, old friends, family? Either way the problem is the alcohoism, why are you looking at helping "the girl", she isn't the one with the problem, help the one with the problem "the alcoholic". I assume the girl is a friend well to help your friend you need to help her roomate (the alcoholic she lives with). Your question should be what can you do to help an alcoholic? If you help the alcoholic you will help your friend. If their relationship is dangerous get the girl out, but don't forget the drunk "he or she" needs help.
An alcoholic is not a victim. The friends and family of the alcoholic are the victims. ANSWER Alcoholism is not a condition that the alcoholic enjoys or wishes upon himself. The fact is most alcoholics that are still drinking are usually miserable and are ashamed that they cannot drink socially like most people. Alcoholism left untreated can lead to a painful death. Unfortunately family and close friends of the alcoholic will also experience anguish. The solution for the alcoholic is of course to stop drinking. This solution is found in treatment and A.A. If the alcoholic is not willing to work at the solution then family and friends need to sever all ties with the alcoholic to cease any further damage to themselves. Hopefully this will help motivate the alcoholic to seek treatment and recovery.
Residential rehab.
Someone looking to find information on alcoholic treatment centers might ask advice from a doctor or therapist. One may also find information on websites about treatment centers and their available programs.
There are many places a person can go to get tips on how to help an alcoholic. A doctor or counselor can give tips on helping an alcoholic. Al-Anon is a group that helps families and friends of alcoholics, so that group would also be a good source for tips. National and local alcohol treatment hotlines can also give tips and advice or they can direct a person to local organizations that can also help with tips.
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The treatment center with the highest independently-verified success rate is the Jude Thaddeus Program.
Looking into a local Alcoholic Anonymous group is a great start. Alcoholscreening.org is a fabulous website that will ask you a series of questions to help you determine if you drink too much alcohol.
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Seek help.
Yes. Alcoholism is a family disease because everyone in the family is affected in some way by the actions of the alcoholic. Children may feel responsible because in their immature minds, they believe if they were better children, the alcoholic would not drink. Spouses may inadvertently promote the drinking without understanding how they could be doing it. Also, when an alcoholic goes into treatment the only thing that changes is the alcoholic. If the family dynamics don't change, the alcoholic is returning to the same toxic environment. While the family is not the cause of the drinking, a slippery slope exists giving the alcoholic an "excuse" to go back to drinking. It is important for the family to remember that they did not cause the alcoholic to drink, they cannot control the drinking and they cannot stop the alcoholic from drinking.