Many children are born into a structured lifestyle. They awake at an appointed time and go down at another. Parents fill their days with play dates, feedings, naps and learning activities. Sometimes the strict schedules of adult life bleed into our children’s activities.
It’s not uncommon to see children as young as three enrolled in preschool four days a week. More schedules. More structure. Less time for children to explore their surroundings on their own. Less time to experiment. Fewer opportunities to be children.
When is the last time you ran through a mud puddle with your child? Or the last time you danced in the rain without a raincoat? Or had a food fight? Such activities are guaranteed to leave a lasting impression and smile on everyone’s face.
Some children thrive when kept to a strict schedule. Others bloom when the reigns are loosened, and they are given a modicum of freedom. Are you in tune with your children to know what works best for them?
Keep the structure where it make sense. Feeding schedules and bedtimes are reasonable examples.There’s something to be said when a child can count on a meal atcertain times eachday.
But don’t go overboard. Allow for unstructured time. That doesn’t mean the kids set the rules and run like wild banshees through the kitchen. But instead of planning every detail of a child’s afternoon, allow for flexibility. Ask you child what she would like to do. Then sit back and listen.
Our children have their whole lives ahead of them to become adults. Let’s allow them to relish being children.
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let the children see the mother or father and let them hang out, its tough for a kid to separate from one of their parents. Liaten to the children on what they think and tell them its not their fault, be authoritative.
Hm if i was in this predicament i would not let the children see him/her
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Ok think first how your parents use to treat you and hated it with a passion. Children will be children im not saying let them do what they want but show them a little privacy and let them have some freedom talk them how you would want them to talk to you
Mr. Raymond tells them this because they are children and they understand this
Mr. Raymond tells them this because they are children and they understand this
Mr. Raymond tells them this because they are children and they understand this
she told to the watchman to allow the children to play in the park
Yes they do.