Check the fluid.
NoNo
this is morally wrong on many levels it is not for humans to play god
yes.
It is inside the transmission, on the valve body. It is the solenoid with the long pigtail.
Yes. Make sure that the transmission is in Neutral and that the transfer case is also in Neutral.
The manual trans would be the AX5 5 speed fully synchronized.
No
It is located in the console on a 95 jeep grand cherokee.
No diagram is needed. It will be on the top left/right transmission bell housing.
Yes
No
Because the bands are slipping which has the same effect as slipping a clutch.