His father Unoka was a lazy debtor, a poor farmer, a coward in war, and an agbala, a man who has taken no titles. Children make fun of him for being an agbala. He is a huge debtor because of his drinking debts, and will never pay back the money. He can barely afford to support his family, and yet when he borrows money he almost immediately spends it on wine. Instead of working hard to succeed, he wastes his time playing the Flute. People from the village looked down upon him, and Okonkwo felt ashamed by proxy.
Okonkwo tries to rise from this inferiority complex by becoming everything his father is not.
Finally, at the end of his days, Unoka is afflicted with swelling of the limbs and is carried to the Evil Forest to die instead of being given a burial.
Okonkwo is ashamed of his father Unoka. He feels his father is weak, effeminate, and made fun of by other members of the tribe. Okonkwo feels a man should be strong like a warrior, but his father is shy of blood. Okonkwo feels a man should be hard working and provide for his family, but Unoka is lazy, and a very poor farmer. Okonkwo ends up inheriting nothing from his father.
Subjective answer: The thing that upsets Okonkwo the most internally, is the fact that Nwoye is too much like his grandfather Unoka. The one action that gets Okonkwo the most upset externally is finding out that Nwoye has been hanging around the Christians, at which point Okonkwo confronts Nwoye and nearly chokes him to death.
Replace Unoka a nd Okonkwo in place of the Ear and mosquito. you'll notice that the Ear (Okonkwo) is offended just by the sight of Mosquito (Unoka) and didn't want anything to do with him. Ear also called mosquito weak by saying he would die within the week having accomplished nothing. In the end, Mosquito survives and lingers around Ear reminding him that he is still alive. Now you may be wondering, how can Unoka still linger around when he is dead? Well that is what Nwoye is for. He has feminine quality so faint (like a buzz of a mosquito) but strong enough for only Okonkwo to notice. This story shows the relationship between Okonkwo, Unoka, and Nwyoe in only 4 sentences *Don't use this as an answer if you are using this for homework and by any crazy random happenstance you have Mrs. Fritz as your English teacher*
The book does not say this explicitly until Nwoye joins the Christians, when Okonkwo calls him an abomination. However, Okonkwo often wishes that Nwoye was stronger, saying that at his age, he should already have impregnated a wife and taken a farm. Okonkwo also wishes that Nwoye were as strong a wrestler as Obierika's child, Okafo.
Unoka claimed that he had to pay his largest debts first, and that Okoye's loan to Unoka was small in comparison.
Okonkwo is Unoka's son. Okonkwo does not respect Unoka, as Unoka is looked down upon by the villagers.
Okonkwo is more a typical man in the Igbo sense.Okonkwo is a better farmer; Unoka is lazy.Okonkwo is arrogant, whereas Unoka is meeker.Okonkwo does not ask for many favours, whereas Unoka is in debt to anyone who will lend money to him.Unoka is a drunkard, whereas Okonkwo seems to enjoy wine responsiblyOkonkwo hates not having anything to do, whereas Unoka is more able to relax.Unoka is more talented musicallyOkonkwo is a better wrestler.Okonkwo is a reknowned warrior, where Unoka is afraid of blood.Okonkwo cares more about what people think of him. He is concerned about position within the tribeOkonkwo occasionally acts as egwugwu. Unoka would never be accorded this privilege.Okonkwo takes two titles. Unoka has none.Okonkwo kills himself. Unoka dies of disease.
Unoka's failures served as a source of shame for Okonkwo, pushing him to strive for success and distance himself from his father's reputation. Okonkwo's drive to succeed was fueled by a desire to overcome his father's shortcomings and establish himself as a respected and successful member of the community. Ultimately, Unoka's failures influenced Okonkwo's fierce determination to achieve greatness and avoid the same fate as his father.
Unoka's laziness, lack of ambition, and inability to support his family during his life contribute to Okonkwo's disdain for him. In addition, Unoka's death, which is seen as shameful due to his debts and lack of titles, further reinforces Okonkwo's negative perception of his father.
Okonkwo is ashamed of his father Unoka. He feels his father is weak, effeminate, and made fun of by other members of the tribe. Okonkwo feels a man should be strong like a warrior, but his father is shy of blood. Okonkwo feels a man should be hard working and provide for his family, but Unoka is lazy, and a very poor farmer. Okonkwo ends up inheriting nothing from his father.
Okonkwo's illness showed his vulnerability and fear of being seen as weak or inadequate in the eyes of his community. It highlighted his inner turmoil and the pressure he felt to live up to the expectations of masculinity and success in his society, which ultimately contributed to his tragic downfall.
Okonkwo was ashamed of his father Unoka, whom other villagers laughed at and did not respect.
In part, but not really. Achebe expounds upon Unoka's other virtues such as his carefree nature and his appreciation of music and life. Unoka can better emotionally measure a man, whereas Okonkwo measures a man only by his deeds.
Okonkwo thought his father Unoka was a shameful man because he was lazy, effeminate, a large debtor, drunkard, and a poor farmer. His father held no titles and was thus called an agbala. Unoka was also not a warrior, preferring instead to play the flute. He was not well respected in any of the villages. Because of this, Okonkwo was ashamed of his father, and did not wish to become like him. He did his best to flee from the shadow of his father.
The Oracle Agbala told Unoka that his crops were failing because he was lazy and had poor work ethic. Unoka was advised to work harder and take farming more seriously in order to achieve success.
Okonkwo's father Unoka was an agbala. The primary definition of agbala was woman, but it could also be used to describe a man with no titles, derisively. As Unoka had no titles, he was an agbala. Some children are mean or thoughtless.
"[Unoka] was poor and his wife and children had barely enough to eat." "But [Okonkwo's] whole life was dominated by fear, the fear of failure and of weakness. . . . It was the fear of himself, lest he should be found to resemble his father. . . ." "Unoka loved . . . the first kites that returned with the dry season, and the children who sang songs of welcome to them." "If any money came [Unoka's] way . . . he immediately bought gourds of palm-wine, called round his neighbors and made merry." "Okonkwo is a strong, disciplined man but he cannot enjoy simple things in life." "And so Okonkwo was ruled by one passion - to hate everything that his father Unoka had loved."