Nwoye's father, Okonkwo, views him with disappointment and disdain. He perceives Nwoye as weak and effeminate, traits that he believes are unbecoming of a warrior and a man in their culture. This disappointment is compounded by Nwoye’s lack of interest in traditional masculine pursuits, leading Okonkwo to harshly criticize and attempt to toughen him up, ultimately straining their relationship. Okonkwo’s rigid expectations reflect his own fears of being perceived as weak, which he projects onto Nwoye.
If between his father and his mother, Nwoye prefers his mother's stories to his father's war stories. Later on, Nwoye prefers the stories of the Christians.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye after he joins the Christians, claiming Nwoye is no longer his son, no longer his children's brother. Okonkwo tells his children, "You have all seen the abomination of your brother."
Ikemefuna's influence on Nwoye is significant as he serves as a positive role model, embodying the traits of strength and masculinity that Nwoye struggles to embrace. Their friendship allows Nwoye to experience a sense of camaraderie and acceptance, which contrasts with his strained relationship with his father, Okonkwo. However, the eventual fate of Ikemefuna deeply traumatizes Nwoye, leading to a profound internal conflict and ultimately driving him away from traditional values and his father's expectations. This pivotal event catalyzes Nwoye's transformation, pushing him towards a more introspective and empathetic worldview.
Nwoye feels grief and feels like something inside of him has broken. Nwoye withdraws from Okonkwo and the world and values his father represents.
This is not the case. Nwoye converts to Christianity, but does not wish to abandon his family. However, Okonkwo's temperament makes this impossible.
Nwoye denies that Okonkwo is his father after Ikemefuna's death, as he is deeply affected by the event and begins to question his relationship with his father. This moment marks the beginning of Nwoye's alienation from Okonkwo and his traditional beliefs.
Neither. Nwoye forges his own path, forsaking his father and his father's gods, and converting to Christianity. Nwoye eventually becomes a little like both his father and grandfather; he cherishes music and prayer, but does not ignore sacrifice and hard work.
Nwoye had converted to Christianity, forsaking the gods of his father and his father before him.
If between his father and his mother, Nwoye prefers his mother's stories to his father's war stories. Later on, Nwoye prefers the stories of the Christians.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye after he joins the Christians, claiming Nwoye is no longer his son, no longer his children's brother. Okonkwo tells his children, "You have all seen the abomination of your brother."
Ezinma was Nwoye's half sister. Both of them share the father of Okonkwo, but Ezinma's mother is Ekwefi; Nwoye's mother is Okonkwo's first wife.
Nwoye and his father never had a very good relationship, so that could have had an effect on Nwoye's childhood. It's never completely specified in the book.
Nwoye spent time with:His motherHis father OkonkwoIkemefunaHis younger brothers and sistersThe Christians
Okonkwo was a masculine man, and expected his son to follow in his footsteps. Nwoye ended up being more effeminate, and either way could not follow in his father's footsteps, instead being obscured by his shadow.
Nwoye was different from his father and other villagers due to his introspective and sensitive nature, which made him question traditional beliefs and customs. He was drawn to the new Christian faith introduced by the missionaries, which clashed with his father's beliefs in the tribal religion. Nwoye's beliefs and values alienated him from his family and community, creating a sense of isolation and inner conflict.
It isn't known if Nwoye's emotions extend to hate. Indeed it seems somewhat unlikely as Nwoye appears to try to reconcile with his father later in the novel. If Nwoye does indeed hate his father Okonkwo, reasons might include:Okonkwo frequently beats Nwoye, and the rest of Nwoye's brothers and sisters.Okonkwo is too stereotypically manly, and discourages Nwoye's feminine pursuits including his love of stories.Okonkwo kills Ikemefuna.Okonkwo nearly kills Ekwefi, another symbol of his brutality.Okonkwo forces Nwoye to leave the household when he shows an interest in Christianity.Okonkwo threatens to kill Nwoye if he ever sees him again.
Okonkwo's disapproval and harsh treatment towards Nwoye, due to Nwoye's perceived weakness and differences in character, cause Nwoye to feel alienated, resentful, and eventually lead him to distance himself from his father and embrace Christianity when introduced to it by the missionaries. Okonkwo's rejection and lack of understanding of Nwoye's emotions and needs ultimately drive a wedge between them.