What was a spartan wedding night ritual?

Answer 1

It was the hardest life anybody could have. All the Spartans did from age 5-21 is train for war. At age 7 the spartan boys were taken to the Agoge to train for war, they would fight each other train all day everyday, the girls would run for stong babies and learn about life and train also for war. After the boys turn 18 they would have to kill a helot (a slave) to pass there training. After they finish there training they immediately go into the barraks for war

Answer 2

Sparta was very much centered on the warrior class, at the expense of the arts and freedom of women. Thus the woman's life in the marriage was that of a submissive servant type of role. If she was upper class though she would have slaves to help raise the children to free her for duties outside the kitchen, nursery and the bedroom.