Ezinma is the child who is most able to understand Okonkwo's view points and what he wishes for their family. She seems to share Okonkwo's desire for family honour and is willing to sacrifice for it as well.
Ezinma is the only child of Ekwefi who survives past the age of 5. Ekwefi does not wish to lose her oldest surviving child to illness, like many of Ezinma's sisters and brothers. When Ezinma gets sick, part of Ekwefi is resigned that her daughter will die, (like her brothers and sisters) and she begins to grieve.
Okonkwo has a minor breakdown and does not eat for two days, only drinking wine. He struggles with his personal beliefs, and is ashamed that he is emotionally affected. He ends up becoming closer with his daughter Ezinma, who understands him best, though he continues to wish she had been born a boy.
Okonkwo takes great pride in her daughter and believes that he is the child that best knows his own thoughts. She is the first surviving daughter with his wife Ekwefi. Okonkwo often wishes Ezinma were a boy. He is inwardly fond of her; her beauty is like her mother's was when she was the Village Beauty.
This is not the case. Nwoye converts to Christianity, but does not wish to abandon his family. However, Okonkwo's temperament makes this impossible.
For Okonkwo, the other religion provides no appeal and is madness, so he can not understand why Nwoye would have joined it. Further, he does not wish to see his children turn their backs on the gods, they would further be ostracized by other villagers, and excluded from high ranks of the tribe.
Okonkwo wishes that Ezinma was a boy because he sees her as having the spirit and strength that he values in masculinity. He believes that if she were a boy, she would have been the perfect heir to carry on his legacy and continue the family lineage.
Okonkwo says to himself several times: "She should have been a boy." Later he says to Obierika: "If Ezinma had been a boy I would have been happier." Later Okonkwo thinks "I wish she had were a boy." Ezinma is one of the few people who understand Okonkwo as well as she does. "He never stopped regretting that Ezinma was a girl."
Okonkwo frequently wishes his daughter Ezinwa was born a boy, because she is the child most able to understand him and his desires for the family. None of his sons have as much desire and ambition to obtain the high level of standing in the village.
Ezinma is the only child of Ekwefi who survives past the age of 5. Ekwefi does not wish to lose her oldest surviving child to illness, like many of Ezinma's sisters and brothers. When Ezinma gets sick, part of Ekwefi is resigned that her daughter will die, (like her brothers and sisters) and she begins to grieve.
Okonkwo has a minor breakdown and does not eat for two days, only drinking wine. He struggles with his personal beliefs, and is ashamed that he is emotionally affected. He ends up becoming closer with his daughter Ezinma, who understands him best, though he continues to wish she had been born a boy.
Okonkwo takes great pride in her daughter and believes that he is the child that best knows his own thoughts. She is the first surviving daughter with his wife Ekwefi. Okonkwo often wishes Ezinma were a boy. He is inwardly fond of her; her beauty is like her mother's was when she was the Village Beauty.
"You wish you had born" is not grammatically correct. You're perhaps thinking of the phrase "you wish you hadn't been born"
He grants him the wish that he had ever been born and shows him what things would have been like without him.
That he'd never been born.
This is not the case. Nwoye converts to Christianity, but does not wish to abandon his family. However, Okonkwo's temperament makes this impossible.
I Wish I Could Have Been There was created in 1993.
I wish I were born with the talent for playing a musical instrument like the piano or guitar. Music has a way of connecting people and emotions, and I admire those who can create beautiful melodies.