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This is very common actually!! An abusive person may use transference to feel normal! By making themselves believe that it is others who are crazy and not them, they can feel better about themselves. My brother's fiance used to beat the hell out of him and he would not hit back, but when he found her cheating and tried to leave, she called the poilce and said he was trying to kill her!! He is trying to make you believe that all that has happened to you is only your imagination! You know this is not true, and it is time you leave. Go to your family, or a friend or an abused woman's shelter - the police, or a doctor can put you in touch with one, they will protect you if he tries to come after you!! He is trying a last ditch attempt to keep you when maybe he senses he is losing you, before he goes any further - get out!!! Good luck! I agree, he is using that tactic to keep you off balance and to doubt your reality, all the while trying to feel normal himself.

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Q: Why would an abusive husband imply that you are crazy out of the blue when he has been mentally cruel and sadistic and how do you leave this situation?
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