Helen's suitors agreed to make an oath to support the man Helen chose as her husband and to defend their marriage against any who might seek to harm it.
So they wont betray them.
The suitors hope that Penelope will choose one of them as her new husband, as they believe Odysseus will never return. They have been pressuring Penelope to make a decision and have been waiting for her to give them an answer.
IF her name is on the TITLE, she can take it. IF the husband is on the loan, he can make whatever arrangements he and the LENDER agree to.
Penelope delayed choosing a husband by telling the suitors that she would choose once she finished weaving a shroud for her father-in-law, Laertes. However, each night she secretly unraveled part of the shroud, thus prolonging the task and delaying the need to make a decision.
Helen of Troy was Queen of Sparta before Paris made her his wife. Her father had had to make a oath so that all her suitors would defend the man that she choose for husband - Menelaus.
Odysseus calls the suitors out for taking over the house and making Penelope marry one of them.
only a stupid husband will do that. I'm gonna go no.
If the husband does not agree to khula, the wife can seek a divorce through the court system by filing for a judicial divorce. This process involves presenting evidence to the court to support her case for divorce, and the court will ultimately make a decision on the matter.
Eurymachus argues that it was only Antinous who was responsible for the suitors' behavior and that the rest of the suitors should not be punished for his actions. He also offers to make reparations for the suitors' misdeeds and promises to compensate Odysseus for any losses they have caused.
Tyndareus is the father of Helen of Troy. In order to not be negatively effected when he picked Helen's husband, he took the advice of Odysseus to make all of the suitors to pledge to come in defense of whoever married Helen if something happens to her.
just say can we start all over and if he doesnt agree then just make a better move ?
Penelope, Ulysses' wife, promised her numerous suitors (who were taking advantage of the fact that her husband was missing, presumably dead) that she would marry the one who would make the best shot, using her husband's bow. None of them even managed to bend it (in order to shoot the arrow), let alone hit the target.