From http://www.8thcivic.com/forums/i-c-e-electrical-security-navigation/2286-fuse-wire-guide.html
Factory Alarm Arm - orange (-) dr kick or MICU, 34 pin plug, pin 32
Factory Alarm Disarm - brown (-) dr kick or MICU, 34 pin plug, pin 31
Civic
To disable an alarm on a Honda Civic locate the brain of the system. The brain controls the alarm. Unplug the brain from the wire harness.
The easiest way to disable the 1998 Chevy Lumina factory alarm is to remove the factory alarm fuse. The factory alarm fuse can be found in the fuse box.
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The easiest way to disable your Kia factory alarm system is to remove the alarm fuse. The alarm fuse can be found in the fuse box.
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my alarm system keep disable my car how do I reset or disable this alarm system
Disable, no.
In these cars the alarm system works in cojunction with the factory radio. If your problem is that you installed an aftermarket radio the system will not work properly. You can reset this control units by disconnecting them from power for about ten seconds. good luck.
The alarm is part of the programming of the BCM and can not be removed
Check the fuse box. There is an "Alarm" fuse.
If the alarm is factory equipped, take it to the dealership. If It was post production installed, take it to the place of installation or to an alarm installation shop. If you intend on stealing the car, ask any policeman. They love questions like this.
I would just buy a replacement FOB form eBay and program it myself. Go to programyourremote dot com for instructions! I did with mine and worked! If you still want to disable you have to take out the big "fuse".