Yes it takes about 2-4 weeks to heal.
Abortions are done in clinics.
Sounds like it was done with a piercing gun, if it was done by a professional body piercer your tragus would feel just fine after three months. If it was done by a gun it's too deep take it out.
There are 2 safe and legal ways to induce abortions and that is a medical way done with pills up to the 9th week and a surgical way. Both you need to go to a doctor for.
At clinics and hospitals. If you live in the US you can find all places at abortion.com. Just click on your state.
It is an incision into the uterus done during a cesarean section, open fetal surgery , and some second-trimester abortions
Buildings torn apart!
Apart from surgical intervention, it cannot be done. You cannot lose 55 lbs of body weight in one month by natural means.
The only alternative for abortion is birth. If you mean different ways to have an abortion done there are 2 ways; medical and surgical. You need a doctor for both.
It can be done by medicine before 9 weeks and then there are different surgical methods depending on how far along you are.
Go see a professional body piercer, they will need to see what you have to work with and advise what can be done. I have done a few with no problems at all so it shouldn't be an issue.
Take it apart, clean it and you are all done.
Don't do it. If it must be done, take it to a gunsmith.