What do you do when your parents don't let you get your ears peircecd?

Answer 1

I just got my, septum, and y 2nd and 3rd level of my ears pierced and my parents don't know, I just turn my septum ring upside down. To get my mum to let me get my ears pierced when I was like 9 I told her that everyone has their ears pierced, that I felt really left out and that I could tell people were talking about me but this was a total lie, most people in my class still don't have their ears pierced and I'm 14

Answer 2

Either wait a while before you ask them again or just wait till you're old enough to get them done on your own. Not much else you can do. it all really depends on why they won't let you get them done.

Answer 3

If you'd had a nose or tongue piercing I could see their concern, but piercing your ears has been around for a long time. It appears you broke the rule of "no" when you first asked and did it anyway, so they are teaching you to listen to their rules and when they say "no" they mean it. Personally, I feel it's unfair and if it were my daughter I wouldn't be too bent out of shape over it. Sit down with your parents and apologize if you went against their wishes and then ask them if you could please wear the earrings. You are 16 and not really considered too young. Many babies in Italy have their ears pierced. Tell them you'll start out with small earrings (not long dangly ones.) Give them food for thought. Tell them you are 16 and how can they tell you to act your age and then when you do they are treating you like a child. Don't be smug or rude to your parents, but try to get them to understand why you did it. If you don't wear at least the "sleepers" the holes will grow in.