Your mother's estate must be probated in order for title to the real estate to pass to the heirs. In New Jersey a spouse cannot be disinherited. Your mother's husband may be entitled to a one-third portion of her estate even if she left the real estate to you in her will. You need to discuss the situation with an attorney who specializes in probate law and who can explain your options.
Unless the stepfather has legally adopted the children, he has no built-in legal right to them.
A boyfriend or stepfather has no legal right to the child so no, you can not.
Emotional abuse can be upsetting, but it's no crime. At 18, you have the right to move out, or you can stay there (if he permits) on his terms. (I'm assuming the house is in his name.)
they should because the stepfather is the dad not the bio father
They could not vote own land and when they devorced their husbands got the house and the kids
Unless your father left a will, bequeathing the house to you on his death, the property is your mothers to do with as she pleases ! You, as a dependent of your mother, have no legal right to stop the sale.
Does stepchildren have right to there stepfather will
Sounds right to me. The time of the passing has nothing to do with who gets the property, it's in the will. If there is no will than your spouse is entitled to it.
That depends on several factors. First if there is a will and it gives everything your mother owns (which is quite common) to your stepfather then there is nothing you can do, because he now owns them. If there is no will, the laws of the state probably provide that if a decedent leaves a spouse and children of a predeceased spouse, then all of them have a proportionate share of the estate. In that case both you and your stepfather own each heirloom in whatever proportion the statute specifies. You would have to buy back the heirloom paying him for his pro-rata interest in the value of the items. Unfortunately, this is an all too common situation, which results in things like a mother's diamond ring going to the stepfather who then has the right to sell it or give it away to his own children, if he has any, in his own will.
Does anyone, or anything?
Yes, as they do have a certain level of responsibility for the child.
You have the legal right to see your mother. See a family law attorney. The first consultation visit is usually free. If your mother is in a hospital speak to the doctor, hospital administrator or one of the social workers at the hospital. They may be able to get you access to your mother.