The church makes no charge for conducting a funeral service. If say the Relief Society are asked to supply the flowers or perhaps a meal after the internment then a nominal fee may be asked for to cover the cost. Usually when it is an all Mormon service all is usually donated.
The money given as a donation to a priest for performing any function such as a funeral is known as a stipend or stole fee.
You donate an amount you think is appropriate.
Money provided by an attendee or guest at a funeral service is referred to as a funeral donation or memorial donation. Often bereaved families will note that in lieu of flowers for the family, funeral donations be made to ZYZ and note a charitable institution or cause. Otherwise, if an organization is not specified or there is no mention of funeral donations, attendees are known to give the bereaved family the funds.
Most funeral homes have the cards and envelopes for this
At church/ a funeral
yes white lilys for funeral because it is peace sign
No. It is disrespectful and not the place to wear them. A funeral is like church where you wear an appropriate outfit.
One can purchase a visitors book online that will be appropriate for a funeral at a number of websites. Among these is the auction website eBay and the retailer Amazon.
The church might tell you what the expected donation is if a funeral luncheon is provided by the parish/church community. In the case of my mother-in-law, we were told $5 per person. For 75 people, this was $350, but we rounded up to $500 since we could afford it, and my in-laws were devout parishioners.
An appropriate amount for a memorial donation typically ranges from $25 to $100, depending on your relationship to the deceased and your financial situation. If you were particularly close to the person or their family, you might consider giving more, perhaps $100 to $250 or even higher. Ultimately, the most important aspect is the thought behind the donation rather than the amount.
you can if you want but you don't have to, as they have already or will charge for their services.
It is now considered appropriate to wear any type of business or business casual clothing and shoes to a funeral. Although the custom used to be that you had to wear black, it is no longer considered to be your only option.