How do you get a girl to love you if you're in primary school?

Answer 1

I'm in year 7 now but when I was in primary school I got my first boyfriend by following these steps:

1. Don't get nervous - he's just a normal guy

2. Become friends - it'll be easier to talk to him when you know him well

3. Take it slow - he will think you're weird if you jump into a relationship

4. Flirt a little - laugh at his jokes, play with your hair, smile at him and hint that you like him but be careful not to appear to desperate

5. Touch him - this may sound odd but boys like it when you touch them and it makes them realise that you like them. If you sit next to them in a class, quickly touch legs or brush past them in the hallway or when you're standing in line

6. See if they like you - check to see if they look at you then turn away

7. Ask them out - if they haven't asked you out by now, ask them, you could be talking and say "wouldn't it be funny if we were going out" and check their reaction or you could say "I'm going to the cinema on Saturday and I wondered if you wanted to go with me?" or if you're quite confident you could even say "I really like you, do you want to go out with me?"

8. Their answer - if they say yes, great but if they say no, don't ask them why or start crying or anything, just say "ok, maybe some other time" and carry on with just being friends, maybe if you're still interested in him in a few weeks or so, you could ask him again but don't sound to keen because this can stop him from liking you. If they said "can I think about it" don't hassle him just say "sure that's fine" and don't worry they haven't said no. I hope this helps you. :-)

Answer 2

Well, if in the scenario you're talking about, the girl doesn't (so-called) love you then you would have to manipulate her into doing so which is apparently wrong but it can work. One of the most common ways is to be nice to her all the time and eventually she may begin to like you enough to believe she is in "love" with you.

However, research in 1978 showed that when you assert yourself as alpha-male within a group you are seen by her as stronger or the leader of your friends. If you and this girl are to kiss or engage in sexual activity, she will release the chemical oxytosin within her body which, 94% of the time, will cause her to feel what naive people believe to be love.