How does focusing on relationships important to change?

Answer 1

IMPORTANCE OF CHANGElet me start by saying its important to have healthy relationships wit people. have you ever wanted to apologize to someone for something you did ten years ago??? why would u want to apologize after ten years has past??? because it still bothers you and it always will. Its important to have healthy relationships with people day to day to help you become a better person as a whole. i wouldn't wanna spend my whole life feeling bad for something i did ten years ago. that's just silly. i think if you focus on your relationships with people it makes you feel better eventhough people don't often reciprocate the same respect. i am nice no matter how much i don't like someone because i don't wanna apologize for something ten years later when its eating my brain and its not necessary. people arent worth it. and when your relationships become positive whether its your boyfriend, friends,, or family you feel comfortable in your life. Your ultimate goal is caring how you feel. the healthiness of your state of mind. I used to be mean but i always end up apologizing or feeling bad for how i was but now im just humble and nice as i can be. and i feel happy no matter how rude someone is to me. I just let them know why are you so mean and im so nice, what did i do to you? i would kill them with kindness and right away they feel bad or just avoid them altogether. I go to the stores and i just observe who's the helpful one and etc and i avoid the nasty ones that's all. i do everything possible to avoid bad people. when it comes to relationships its important to change because evryone is not going to like the "same ol you". what one person accepts someone else isn't. its important to change to make any relationship work. you cant do what u wanna do to people and think evrythng is going to be ok. that's not how the world works. I can share with you my boyfriend that i met didnt have a girlfriend for 5yrs so the transition was hard. he didnt kno how to do simple things like call evryday etc.... but i left him just to see what he would do and you kno he changed at the drop of the dime. so it took me to leave him to change. why?? people arent gonna change if u allow them to be any way they want. u have to set standards and if people e cant meet them. forget em. someone else will