Do you say John and me or John and myself?

Answer 1

It depends.

In places where you would use "I", use "Shawn and I" (e.g., Shawn and I went to the movie).

Where you would use "me", use "Shawn and me" (e.g., Mary went with Shawn and me to the movie).

Answer 2

The correct form depends on what position the words have in a sentence.

John and I went to the cinema. (Subject)

Mary said she saw John and me in Paris. (object).

To check which is right, leave out 'John and'. If it sounds stupid, it's wrong:

Me went to the cinema is obviously wrong, as is Mary saw I.

You'd only use John and myself in a sentence where you'd say 'myself' if John weren't there.

Answer 3

I also asked him to direct any future loan requests to me or the Bakersfield FLP team.