What is IS submissive woman?

Answer 1

noun 1. A submissive woman is one who is born with the desire to surrender her will, mind, spirit and body -her very self- to someone she perceives as stronger, wiser, whom she is able to trust completely and who shares this inherent need. The D/s (Domination/submission) relationship can be more emotional, cerebral and honest than many so called 'vanilla' (non-D/s) relationships. Being submisive does not make you a doormat or mean that you must be passive in every aspect of your life, or be submissive in any way to anyone you may meet. On the contrary being submissive can ultimately make you a stronger woman. Most submissive women are strong-willed and intelligent. Being submissive to one man affords a woman the opportunity to embrace her man; to follow the man's lead, to please her man, to support and back him, to submit to him sexually, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. When the two meant for one another are finally able to meet, they will grow together in all aspects of life and feel more fulfilled than ever before. For a woman to submit is a beautiful thing indeed. To find that special man to submit to is just as beautiful, for it is not easy. These submissive feelings are always there beneath the surface. It takes a dominant man to recognize, nurture and bring out those vulnerable feeings.

Answer 2

A submissive woman is a woman who allows her boyfriend/husband to make all her decisions for her and tell her what to do. If you're asking what it means for a woman to be submissive in bed, it means she just does whatever her boyfriend/husband wants her to do sexually and doesn't question it.

While the above is generally accepted as submission in today's world, it is far from what submission really is. The husband/boyfriend does not make all her decisions for her, nor does he tell her what to do! A truly submissive woman does reverence her husband/boyfriend, consults with him about important decisions, and submits to his advice after they discuss the matter. Submission is more like deciding together, but the man has the final authority after taking everything discussed into consideration. By the same token, the man discusses important decisions he needs to make with the woman before making them.

The word submission gives the picture described in the first response of a woman who can't buy a banana or have dinner with a friend without asking the man first. That is not submission! That is bondage and control. True submission simply allows one person to be the final authority in important matters after discussing the matter together. That's all.