Well, darling, a cuckquean is a woman who gets her kicks from watching her partner getting cozy with someone else. It's like being a voyeur, but with a side of emotional masochism. So, if you're into that kind of thing, more power to you!
The opposite of a cuckold is a bull. In the world of cuckolding, a bull is a man who is invited to participate in sexual activities with a cuckold's partner. So, if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, maybe consider adding a bull to the mix. But hey, to each their own!
A cuckold is a man whose wife is not sexually exclusive with him. Traditionally, this meant without his knowledge or consent. (Hence, she was "unfaithful," having broken their marriage vows of fidelity.)A woman whose husband is unfaithful is a "cuckquean."A man who knows and accept his wife's infidelity for whatever reason is termed a "wittol," a word devolved from Old English spellings of "wise" (as in "in the know') and cuckold.Fetish usageCuckold is also a sexual fetish term. In fetish cuckolding, the cuckold (or "cuck") is the willing male partner of a female who is sexually active with other males. Outside of fetish usage, such a man is properly be termed a wittol if the couple is married. It is important to note that in fetish usage a couple need not be married for the male to be termed a cuckold.
Cuckold refers to a man whose wife is unfaithful.
The opposite of a cuckold is a bull. In the world of cuckolding, a bull is a man who is invited to participate in sexual activities with a cuckold's partner. So, if you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, maybe consider adding a bull to the mix. But hey, to each their own!
The female variant of cuckold is cuckquean. However, it should be noted that the connotations of cuckoldry are currently taken to two extremes. There are some men who abhor the idea of being made a cuckold whilst there are others who relish this experience. A man who is a willing cuckold is called a wittol, but the term cuckold is used in fetish circles. (The pleasure of being made a cuckold can either come from the sadomasochistic humiliation of being "forsaken" or from the opportunity to "share" the experience in the form of an open relationship.)
A husband whose wife has been sleeping around with other men without his knowledge or consent. It means the same today technically, although people sometime extend it to cover people in committed relationships who are not married or use it for women (in place of the correct female equivalent "cuckquean.") Cuckold is also used today among sexual fetishists for men who get a masochistic sexual thrill from their wives engaging in extracurricular sex (a person more properly termed a "wittol," from the Old English for "wise (knowing) cuckold") because it reinforces the role-play conceit of compulsion.
A cuckold is a man whose wife is not sexually exclusive with him. Traditionally, this meant without his knowledge or consent. (Hence, she was "unfaithful," having broken their marriage vows of fidelity.)A woman whose husband is unfaithful is a "cuckquean."A man who knows and accept his wife's infidelity for whatever reason is termed a "wittol," a word devolved from Old English spellings of "wise" (as in "in the know') and cuckold.Fetish usageCuckold is also a sexual fetish term. In fetish cuckolding, the cuckold (or "cuck") is the willing male partner of a female who is sexually active with other males. Outside of fetish usage, such a man is properly be termed a wittol if the couple is married. It is important to note that in fetish usage a couple need not be married for the male to be termed a cuckold.
A cuckold is a married man whose wife is sexually active with other men without his knowledge or consent. So you become one through the action of others, although your choice of partner and your behavior in the marriage might have some impact on it. The word "cuckold" is also used in BDSM fetish to describe a relationship in which one partner gets a masochistic/submissive thrill from having the other partner be sexually active outside the pair. The submissive partner is called a cuckold in the scene (although as consenting partners they are in fact "wittols" in real life.) If by "become a cuckold" you mean "become a cuckold fetishist," then the answer has to do with the eroticization of profound fears of betrayal, emasculation, and measuring-up. These fears may have become this profound as a result of trauma, or from the thousand cuts of your upbringing. For any specific individual, psychoanalysis would be needed to uncover the unique roots of their own kinks. The dynamic however, is the same, the mind eroticizes what it fears in order to render it endurable and your libido learns to play with this as a reliable way to turbo charge erotic stimulation. If by "become a cuckold" you mean "how does someone who has a cuckold fetish live out their fantasies," then you merely need a willing partner. Internet matching site and chat forums have made this much easier. Many specialize in BDSM, fetish, and "alternative lifestyles." Also there are often local gatherings of fetish and kink communities where you can meet and network with folks until you find a good match. If a person is already married and hasn't previously discussed this kink with their partner, then honest, direct communication and sharing of deep intimacies and dark fantasies between the couple are necessary for exploring this or other sexual variations. (Necessary, but not sufficient. Your partner may say no, but you are still better off for having been honest with them.)