Are all men that cheat serial cheaters?

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I don't know. I have just recently - silly me - gone back to a relationship 3 times and have gone for good now. I always thought at one time he had cheated on me but of course denied it all. He did have an affair previous to his wife and slept with someone else that I know of when he was married. I think he is a very good liar and knows the right things to say to get him out of it. I sort of started to see through it after time. It's actually quite sad they have to live their life like that as one day they are going to turn around and see how lonley they are. He became very irrational and the behaviour just wasnt normal to me. I think they start to believe their own bull if they have lied many times. They get use to it and it becomes a habit hard to break. I think sometimes the best thing to do is do yourself a favour and get out of it. You are worth so much more and need someone that will respect you and not fill you full of rubbish you know isn't true. Normally gut feelings are correct - if you are feeling it. Dont let anyone tell you any different!!!

AnswerNo I don't think all men that cheat are serial cheaters. That saying "once a cheater always a cheater" depends on the person and the situation. I do believe once a liar always a liar, and if this is the case....run! AnswerNot always. Everyone is human and can make mistakes. And for many reasons. If he admits it, if he only did it once, and if he is obviously very distressed by it, you can assume it was a one time thing. You have to make a rational decision, and not be blinded by love to determine if he is a serial cheater. Try looking for outside opinions, buy neutral parties, so they can have a rational view on the situation.

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Yes, Once a cheater, always a cheater even if the person doesn't acknowledge it. I know of someone who cheated on his wife got caught with the pregnant girlfriend and obviously thrown out of the house after that. But to this day blames the wife, because she wasn't pretty enough, thin enough, outgoing enough; everything is her fault. That she didn't do things to keep him interested; egomaniac where the world is supposed to revolve around him and where nothing satisfies him. The woman he got caught with is gone, new girlfriend in the picture that had no knwoledge of his background. Now the girlfriend suspects. Why another woman constantly calling their house. Supposed coworker he is to share drive in to work less than 2 minutes from the house and yet he refuses to introduce this co-worker to the girlfriend. Meets her instead away from the house. Has no gumption to wait around for hours to take co-worker home when he wasn't working the rest of the afternoon. Yet he got angry with girlfriends doctor that called him to pick her up from surgery. SO yes once a cheater, always a cheater.