Being a mistress

Answer 1

Yes! This isn't only effecting you and your "mister", especially if he has children. Try not to just think about yourself, put yourself in this woman's shoes. It doesn't matter if she's a horrible person or whatever, the point is if she finds out it will hurt her even if she pretends it doesn't. And if this guy has kids it will hurt there WHOLE family. Is that really something you want on your shoulders? Is a guy really worth that?

Plus ask yourself why would you even want to be in a relationship with someone who is married and committed to someone else? If your thinking you can steal him away, chances are that won't happen, and even if it does who's to say he won't cheat on YOU down the road? It sounds like you have some commitment and maybe even some self-esteem issues to work on if you get a kick out of running around with someone else's husband.

Answer 2

no but you can be my mistress any day

ANSWER:

It's not illegal to be a mistress, but it's a sin to become one in the eyes of God. When you decided to ignore the word married man and help him to destroy the life that he had with his wife, was the day you ignored and set aside your faith. If you are with the married man, do the right thing of telling him to go away. But if you are thinking how it will feel to become a mistress, DON'T because people will not respect you and you will loose your dignity.

Answer 3

Not a good idea at all! Up until the 1950's Mistress' were considered 'kept women' and this was placed in the category of prostitution. However, during these modern times it seems anything goes, but trust me when I say 'You lay down with dogs, you get up with fleas' .... a bad reputation. Nothing really changes from one generation to the other. You will NEVER get the best out of the guy keeping you as his mistress. He wants you when he snaps his fingers no matter how good he is to you or in what lifestyle he keeps you in. He WILL NOT leave his wife and marry you. If you value your own independence and self respect and want to remain control of your own life then don't become a mistress. There is also the moral obligation. Put yourself in the shoes of his wife! If he will cheat on her he will either eventually cheat on you or dump you. The choice is yours.