Boyfriend broke up with you and now he wants you back what do you do?

Answer 1

How long ago did you break up?

Your best option is just to contact him and ask him to get together for a coffee or something, even as just friends. Spend some time chatting with him about normal things, and mention that you might want to start spending some more time with him again. Mention a possible date or something. The most important things are to not be needy, and don't beg. Be calm and confident about everything you do and say.

Also, depending on the circumstances of your break-up, you might have to explain to him why you want to start seeing him again. You will have to explain the differences in how you feel now vs. how you felt then. What changed things for you?

Answer 2

It depends if he's nice. If he's mean and hurt you badly the first time don't get togerther unless you really need him.

First you need to think if you really want to be with him again. You have to think if he is going to do or act in the same way that caused you to break up with him. Also, if you are in a relationship with someone else, think if you would give up your boyfriend for him and if he's worth it. If you do think he is worth it and he won't take advantage of you and he will want to stay with you, then go ahead.

Answer 3

* When a man says he wants a break that's a good indication he is not happy in the relationship and feels hemmed in and wants to be a free man again. Start communicating with him and ask him if he sees either of you getting back together again. If he says it's possible then assure him that you will start to date again as this may just make him rethink his decision. If not, then move on from him because your wants and needs are different than his. For most of us there is always that special person out there just waiting to meet us and if we were tied down in a poor relationship we may miss meeting them.

Answer 4

I was in a similar situation recently where the guy said he wanted to try again. A few weeks down the line, he started to cancel on me and quite often would not turn up without any sort of communication.

He was my ex from before, the same thing happened again and again and again over a fair few years, at least this time around he didn't owe me a several hundred pounds ! I really hope this helps you to make your decision, it's not an easy one. Just make sure you aren't just a friend with benefits.

Take care and keep sane and safe :)

Answer 5

Say no, unless he can prove that he is sincerely in love with you, and you feel the same.