Can you ever really stop loving somebody?

Answer 1

Though I am not an expert on such issues, I do believe that I have gone through certain phases of my life which would enable me to answer this to an extent. I don't believe that anyone can stop loving anyone completely. If he/she does so, then it would mean that he/she never really loved the other person truly. Maybe the intensity decreases and fades with time but it doesnt ever fade out completely. You still realise that you do care atleast a little bit for the person.

Answer 2

Seriously, this is a very difficult problem. You may journey through different relationships and still love this person who would not return the favor.

Possibly the solution is to distance yourself and provide many different activities to occupy your mind and time.

Another thing that helps is to realize that you would not want to be in a relationship where the other person did not love you an equal amount anyway. I know this boy and i love him so much and its so hard when he doesnt love you back. He likes my best friend, and she doesnt like him so we are in such a pickle and i cant deal with it at all. She doesnt want to hurt me and i dont want to hurt her soooo....yeah. I wish i could bring myself to stop loving him but i cant i have him in my mind, on my tongue and in my heart although he may not love me, i will always love him.

Answer 3

I think the best you can do is try to stop if it isn't right. Loving someone is an amazing feeling. It can inspire you, it can fill you with life, but it can also hurt you. If for some reason your better judgment is telling you to stop, you can always try to distract yourself from seeing or thinking of this person. But if you really ggenuinely love them, this will be difficult to do. Sometimes we fall in love with people and regardless of the circumstances, we simply can't take it back. Not everyone we love will love us back or love us in the way that we love them. So sometimes we have to be stronger than our feelings and resort to using our minds. If loving someone is not right, you need to remind yourself of that every day until it sticks. Eventually, you will meet someone else worth loving and you will be happy again!