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Can you feel like you are the mistress of your spouse while he was cheating on you?
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∙ 13y ago
- Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
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How sorry is your cheating spouse after the affair?
* As to how sorry the cheating spouse is depends on the individual who cheated. Some men make a mistake once and feel guilty and heartbroken when they realize how they have hurt their spouse or children; other men feel no remorse for cheating and are just sorry they got caught.
Does the male spouse generally refuse to admit to his affair even when the other spouse caught him?
Yes, the male spouse will often refuse to admit he has been cheating on his wife because they feel guilty and even while having the affair they feel it is wrong so they will lie no matter how much evidence is against them.
Would you feel bad towards your spouse when he learned that his mistress has a boyfriend while his is seeing her?
if my mistress was dating another guy and i knew about it of course i would feel bad towards her i wouldn't hurt her or anything i would tell how i feel and tell her to make a decision between me or the other guy and if she was like i can't then i would break up with her
Do you think your spouse is cheating but he is not?
Yes, some individuals can think their spouse is cheating when they are not. Some individuals have a jealous streak because they are not confident in themselves or perhaps have been hurt by someone else in the past that did cheat. Once an individual has been cheated on previously they are more inclined to be more suspicious of their new spouse cheating. This is where good communication skills is most important in a relationship and you should feel free to discuss how you feel with your spouse and then listen to what they have to say. There are male and female spouses who do cheat, but in most cases the signs are there or eventually the spouse cheating will give themselves away or be caught. We all risk a spouse cheating throughout our life spans, but thankfully a higher percentage do not cheat. Your relationship should be based on trust and if you do not feel you have it then work on it by communicating with your spouse or, if you are having difficulties with thinking your spouse is cheating there is nothing wrong with seeing a psychologist to get you over your difficult time.
Is a spouse allowed to cheat if their spouse becomes incarcerated?
Cheating is never justified in a marriage, regardless of the circumstances. If a spouse feels unsatisfied or unable to remain faithful while their partner is incarcerated, it is important to address these issues through open communication or seeking counseling, rather than resorting to infidelity.
How will you feel if your spouse falls asleep when his with you but inspired to stay up late in the evening talking to his mistress on his cell phone?
You will probably feel that it's time to see a good divorce lawyer.
Why do i feel like spouse is cheating on me?
It is a terrible feeling to be cheated upon. There might be various reasons for your feeling. Ignorance is the main one.
Your spouse cheating if she had dinner and drinks with a old friend and did not say anything about it?
I feel that if anyone keeps a secret from their spouse about being with someone that they know you would not approve of is Cheating.... If she felt that it wasn't wrong she would have told you. That is plain sneaking around to me... I would keep my eyes open if I was you....
Why do the ugly images of spouse adultery refuse to go away?
When a spouse gives their other spouse all their love; trust and loyalty they always feel their spouse will do the same so when the spouse has an affair it comes as a shock to the other spouse. It is heartbreaking; that treasured bond of trust you once had in your spouse has gone and not easily earned back. It is normal to envision your cheating spouse being with someone else and enjoying themselves and it makes you question yourself as far as 'did I do something wrong; perhaps not enough and I let my partner down'; 'is our sexual relationship not good enough and did I do anything wrong; to 'does my cheating spouse think I am not attractive enough' or in some cases 'have I lost my looks and I'm too old and they don't want me anymore.' This makes the victim of a cheating spouse feel insecure and eventually they become angry and resentful and find it difficult to forgive their spouse for the cheating; the victim cannot feel sympathy for their spouse; the victim has a deep seated urge to pay back their cheating spouse for all the hurt he/she caused them and this in turn involves a poor sexual relationship because the victim feels when their cheating spouse is making love they are still thinking of the other person they cheated with. Marriage counseling can help, but it is entirely up to you (you hold the power) to either move on from the marriage or see a marriage counselor to learn the tools to deal with any problems in your marriage, but it takes the both of you to make it work. As far as your trust in your spouse it will take time and it is entirely up to them to earn that trust again.
Coming from a man who has been in this position does he think about his mistress after he gets caught cheating and stops talking to her for now and if so how often?
Each man is different as to how often he may think of his mistress. Some men may feel ashamed of cheating on their wife; other men are just sorry they got caught; some men will wait until things cool down with their wife and then go back to their mistress. Cheating is selfish because the husband does not care how he will hurt his wife and possibly any children they may have together. Cheating is the lowest form of hurt one human can do to an another. If a man is that unhappy in his marriage and loves the mistress then he can be a man and get a divorce and marry the mistress. The odd thing is few men ever marry their mistresses and simply use a mistress for sex.
What is the cheapest unnoticeable way to make sure your spouse is not cheating?
if you actually think that they are cheating on you and you feel the need to prove it , hate to say it ,but then they probably are! So trust your instinct, should you have to worry about that in a relationship anyway?
Is a simple kiss considered cheating or adultery?
yes. Any thing that you wouldn't do in front of your spouse, to me is considered cheating.How would you feel if the tables were turned?
