Do you tell your husband you love another man?

Answer 1

It depends on the husband- I tell mine, but I make it a joke . Like, "Some dude checked me out!" or "Some guy was totally staring - and not at my face. I wanted to tell him my ears aren't on my chest." Then again, we've been married for a while - I definitely never told him when we were first married, he was a little posessive then. Now we're more comfortable. I suppose it depends on weather or not your husband would think it's funny. Yes, but say it suttlely, like in a 'matter of fact' kind of way. Try and make it funny.

Answer 2

I would suggest you are honest with your husband. When in doubt reverse the situation. How would you feel if your husband was having an affair with another woman behind your back! Cheating is a spineless act because the individual cheating wants their needs met and selfish enough to think if their new relationship doesn't work out they can go limping back to their mate without a word said and it's about financial security. How about the needs of the husband in this scenario! It's deception and he thinks all is well and hasn't the freedom to move on with his life. Remember, the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. If you think you won't have problems in another relationship you are sadly mistaken. Each couple has their problems and if a person keeps moving and cheating just so they don't have to confront those problems and try to make the relationship work they will keep moving on, being disappointed and could quite possibly end living alone and bitter.