Does your husband love you if he doesn't want you to have his children?

Answer 1

Absolutely not. Love comes in more than one form. Say you loved a really good friend but they give poor advice. You may not want their opinion on certain things. That has nothing to do with how you feel about them. If you want children and your husband doesn't than maybe there's an underlying issue. You could possibly benefit from looking at your situation through a new perspective or from afar. Imagine someone has asked you the same question. What would you tell them? No, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you it means he's selfish and doesn't think about anyone but himself! The truth of the matter is he should have told you he didn't want children before you got married! HE let you down. Most young couples get married and work towards their future and hope to have at least 2 children. He's selfish and possibly afraid of children taking all your attention from him or, the responsibility of supporting children. It's time you sat down together (without yelling or screaming) and asking him why he feels this way about not having children. Don't forget to ask him why he didn't bother to make you aware of this before he married you. I he refused to discuss this then tell him to get a vasectomy if he's so against having children. This will have his eyeballs rolling across the floor! Good luck hon