If she's a true lesbian then she could have men for friends, but still like women. If she's bisexual then she could go either way. Are you sure whether she's lesbian or bisexual is the question here. It's appears you are sneaking into her private messages (not good) and it's best to COMMUNICATE to her how you feel rather than snooping to find out what she is up too. Second-guessing can only get you into trouble. There may be a logical explanation for this. Example: She may well want a massage (many men are trained in massage and provide therapy to both sexes) and he may have no idea your friend is a lesbian. If it is true that he mentioned being well hung, then he is not a professional massage therapist.
I have a friend in California that is lesbian and has had a partner for 9 years and she was hit on from the very doctor treating her for breast augmentation. ---- Actually as a lesbian myself, I can tell you it is quite normal for gays in general to be ashamed of who they are. They are not comfortable with with who they are or scared people will think they are lesser because they are gay. It may not make sense, but they often have affairs with the opposite sex to prove to themselves they are not different, to try and prove they are straight or sometimes to punish themselves for being gay. The real issue is their self esteem and self worth, NOT their sexuality in most cases. Think of something in life you were embarrassed of or felt guilty for doing. What did you do? You probably tried to prove you weren't that person. Sadly it's OK to just be yourself, but society puts these "labels" on you and many gay people are ashamed.
If she is someones girlfriend and not the lesbian's then she might not be a lesbian. She could merely be friends with this girl. If she is the lesbian's girlfriend then yes she probably is then. :)
Then your a Lesbian?
She tells you that she is a lesbian.
Men are Gay not Lesbian. Women are Lesbian, and Bisexuals like both Men and Women.
I hear a lot of insecurity here but a lesbian does not choose a girlfriend because men think she is hot. If you are in love with someone, people can think w/e they like. Men are not attracted to all women and is most likely not finding all their male friends wives hot. That does not make the male friends feel they chose the wrong wife. And, of course, if you are friends you should avoid telling someone you think his/hers girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife is not attractive. It's enough to know your friend think they are. And why care what strangers think when you are walking with your love by your side?
Be there for her and support her. DO NOT FRECKEN DUMP HER!
Sure is. Da Brat isn't lesbian, she has 2 kids
Well that'd be a lesbian cheater.
With a girlfriend.
a lesbian is when a girl likes the opposite sex. for example, if you like to make out with women and men, you are bisexual. if you like to make out with just women, you are lesbian. if you like to make out with men, you are straight.. this is depending on whether you are a male or female. in which, i am speaking in a females perspective.
I doubt she would be your "girlfriend" if that was the case.
That's ok. Maybe Your Bi-sexual where you like both. what about a strap on?