How can you forget the guy who doesn't recognize you as his girlfriend and doesn't want to marry you in the future?

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I've been through the same thing,ask him first if he says no leave him forget about him.if his giving mixed signals talk to him ask him how does he feel about you and if you are shy like me forget about him move on,the guy i liked gave me mixed signals but i was to shy to ask him,he was hooked on his ex-girlfriend she dumped him,its like i was a replacement. GOOD Luck from Heartbroken Yes, it hurts, probably because you have feelings for him. But I hope you realize this is a dead end situation? An old woman once told me : " If he doesn't want you, he doesn't deserve you." Think of this in a positive light, if he doesn't want to recognize you as his girlfriend etc (I mean really, do you really want to be with someone like that?), move on and then you will be open to meet up with someone who really wants to share his life with you!!!! You know, one closed door opens a miriad of others. Please decide for yourself what's important but don't stick around if you are feeling like you keep getting more and more stuck in the mud. It's all that much harder to pick yourself up. Take it from me, I know what I'm talking about!!! I spent 4 years justifying a relationship....what a waste of my time and energy!!!!!! Life is short, remember that! Oh and remember that and you deserve someone who wants an "official girlfriend/wife"....Don't we all????? Also, think of it in a different way....Think of a friend of yours you really like and she was also in this situation...what would you tell her? "Yes, stick with him, he might change his mind...one day....NOT!!!!" Always listen to your instincts. Good luck A cyber friend who was also in an "unofficial relationship and ya, it sucked" I can relate to you. I think everyday you spend with this person is another day farther away from the right man who wants to tell the world about you. Guys that do this are users and you will end up with heartache. If you do stay with him, maybe then start going other places to meet men and then dump his sorry butt when you find better, nothing wrong with that. If he makes no commitment then you are free to go out and find new men!!!!!! Dont come out the loser. Either stay and find other men while with him, or dump him and tell him the sex is not good anymore. "How can you forget the guy who doesn't recognize you as his girlfriend and doesn't want to marry you in the future?" Plenty of fish in the sea. Move on!