How can you get a girl your in love with but isn't in love with you?

Answer 1

There really isn't an exact answer to this. But my answer to it is to get her attention and ask her out. If she says yes, good for you. If not, don't give up and try to get to know her a bit more. This being, don't stalk her in anyway. Talk to her, hang out with her, exchange contact info. If you feel there is a strong bond between the 2 of you, then ask her out to a place you know you both will have a good time at. This could mean a club, a restaurant, the movies, carnival, what ever you can do with friends. The goal here is to make her feel comfortable around you, and to prove your feelings for this girl.

Here's what i had done to prove to my other half I love them. I found their contact info on a dating site, and talked to them for a while. Later i developed a connection with him by having idle conversations, finding out similarities and differences, etc. Then I asked them out on a casual date, nothing fancy, just a day together at the mall. We had a good time there, we talked and made fun of things around us, and went window shopping. Then we saw a movie, and we later developed a strong connection. We had a good time together. After we left, I texted them and told them I had a good time, so did they. And that we would do it again. This time we went to another shopping place and ate. I found out their ex was an artist like me, and decided to draw them a picture since their ex started one, but never finished it. I never spoke if it until they came to my house one day. I showed them a picture it it brought them to tears they were so happy. I knew then we were made for each other and we both wanted to be couples.

Its fun to get creative with this process. This shows you care and love them.