How can you get a man to tell you he loves you if you see it in his eyes and his touch?

Answer 1

dont rush love. if you want a strong relationship allow it to grow slowly. fast, intense relationships dont last long, and end ugly. If you act or do things " to get " them to feel a certain way then it is not a genuine feeling, and they will feel pushed into it. First of all, 'seeing it in his eyes' is not a valid way to tell if someone loves you (or if they don't) What you see there could be a reflection of what you wish were true. Ditto for the 'touch'. Secondly, if a person loves you, you will know it by the way they act. Third, 'getting' a person to say that they love you is very manipulative. If you are forced to behave in a certain way or do certain things in the hopes that someone will say that they love you, then who they say they love will end up being the person you are forcing yourself to be and that person does not really exist. So, look for someone with whom you can be truly yourself and give yourselves time to develop feelings for each other based on trust, mutual respect and shared interests. That way, you will never have to ask this question again. You can't hurry love. Telling you he loves you reflects his feelings and it is as big a thing to most guys as it is to you. So, it is something it is best to let happen as it will. Believe me, even the shyest guys will get it said when they mean to. ANSWER I believe that you can see love in someone´s eyes and feel it in their touch, and for people with this ability, it is a valid way to tell if someone loves you. I had an expereince where I saw love in my boyfriend´s eyes, felt it in his touch, and I also knew it by the way he acted. He always treated me with consideration and respect. After a while I came to love him too, because of the awesome person that he was, but he never said I love you. After a few months we broke up because I was no longer willing to continue seeing him without a verbal committment. Over a year later, after we broke up, he finally told me that he loved me. I believe that the reason he didn´t tell me while we were together is that he wasn´t ready for a serious relationship, and I think he told me that too, but I can´t remember right now. Anyway, the previous answers are all correct in that you can´t hurry love, and if you do, you will only be manipulating your man. I realized after breaking up with mine that I had been trying to manipulate him, and he had refused to be manipulated. I learned from this relationship to treat a man with respect, and although I have been hurt and used in the past, I now know to leave that all behind when I meet someone who is genuine. There are lots of books that describe how to coax a man into committing to you, such as Why Men Love Bitches. This book appealed to me at a time when I was allowing myself to be used by men who wouldn´t commit, but the techniques that are described in this book can easily turn into manipulation, and manipulation is not compatible with true love. Luckily, my man refused to be manipulated and I learned a valuable lesson. Had he allowed me to manipulate him, our relationship would have become distorted and our love would have deteriorated. Love can only be an act of free will. If you see it, he's already said it (in his mind of course). He could possibly be shy to say it. Whatever you do, dont rush him. If he truly loves you, he'll say it in time. And it'll be the sweetest words you've ever heard.