How can you get your ex girlfriend back if she hates you and is with someone else?

Answer 1

You obviously have given her reason to hate you.

Think of what that was, and ask yourself, if you were her would you want 'you' back? Look at it from her point of view. You have caused her some pain.... it may, or may not, go away.... but the last thing she is going to want is you trying to get her back.

Write her a letter.

Explain what happened and apologise sincerely - don't write if the apology is not sincere.

Tell her, once, that you would like to make it up to her and to see her again.

Don't pressurise her.

If she comes back it will be on her terms and in her own time-scale.

If you just want her back for ego reasons then forget it.

Answer 2

You can't... Sorry I am in that position but worse. She wants to be friends even though she doesn't realize how much it would hurt me seeing her knowing she won't be with me...

answer:

well you could try and contact her weather its by calling her or writing her a note. Just tell her you want to talk to her about somethings. Its best if you do it in person even tho it might hurt more but it would be good seeing her.

just explain to her that you still like her and that you havent gotten over her and that you want to be friends but even tho she hates you could she give you another chance as friends BUT dont push it if she says no or she'll think about it

thats probably the best advice i could give to you'se and i hope you'se get together or end up friends

Answer 3

If she hates you well you cant unless she is convincing.