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How can you stop thinking about and wishing to be with somebody you used to love when they want to move on?
You can't *stop* thinking about or wishing to be with with someone you love. You can only *start* thinking about someone new. Time will help, if you are otherwise a balanced person. Maybe you can start thinking about your life as a book being written. If it is to be a good book, then each new chapter will get more interesting or enjoyable. Most of the time people don't decide on their own to start a new chapter. Loosing a job, a loved one, or even a pet pushes you into the next chapter. It is painful, but necessary to move on.
I encourage you to change your daily routine and find a new project such a volunteering a couple of hours per week at an orginazation that needs man/woman power. Change your scenery and most of all, don't go crying back to the one that left you. Suck it up and declare to yourself that you will not let the other person know your are hurting or wanting them back --- it never works permenantly --- going back together more than once is just an invitation to be taken for granted and/or abused.
Also, don't drag this out with your co-workers or friends. Let them know you are no longer together and you are looking for something better than before --- only when it comes along. Desprate to be loved is not a lovely place to be. It is truly amazing that we are designed to have a companion, but it is completely necessary to be happy as an individual before we can have a lasting, healthy relationship. Get happy with yourself, and I don't mean with drugs or other ways of getting high.
I personally find much help from being part of a Christian group. There a sure a lot of versions of Christian out there, maybe one would suite you. If you think you may be in a pattern of loving and loosing, I suggest http://www.drlaura.com/ This zaney Dr. has a book that could help: 10 Stupid Things Women (or Men) Do to Mess Up Their Lives. Check it out. If you will listen to Dr. Laura's radio show, you may feel better because you will find out you really have your act together compared to some of the people that call in to her show.
God Bless
What else can I help you with?
What if you love someone but he doesn't love you what would you do?
Its best to move on instead of toturing yourself wishing they would feel the same. That's what I did.
What does the song by Katy Perry Thinking of you mean?
The song is about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend goes to war but tells her to move on. So she moves on, but even though she's with her new boyfriend she still thinks about her old boyfriend who she's madly in love with. Unfortunately her old boyfriend dies at war.
What to do when you love somebody that does not love you?
Move on. It will be difficult, but worth it in the end. tell them how you feel and eventually hope for the best
Just been on holiday with your spouse but spent a lot of the time thinking about and missing someone else what does this mean?
We all 'miss' someone now and again. My advice to you were to be, to live life in the moment. If you are not in love with the person, move on. Where is this person you are thinking about? Unavailable? Why are you wasting your time thinking of somebody else, who may not be thinking of you? Don't live in fantasy, live in reality.
How do you love somebody who doesnt love you back?
Well i will say froget about him/her cause your just hurting your self it always happens to people but they move on:]
What do you do if the person you love loves somebody else?
Unfortunately you have to grin and bear it, move on and find someone, someone who loves you for what you are. That person is out there.
What do you do when somebody you like is dating somebody?
Move on, it sucks but do it
How do you get to know thst its the time to move on in love?
If your thinking it from the heart then its probably time If your thinking it from the head maybe you should hold tight Just my personal view, only you really know when its time for you to move on
What do you do if you love someone but they dont love you back?
if you love somebody and they don't love you back then you should either move on, or you should wait for them and not give up. but if you wait for them then that could make you even more sad and they might think that your weird. and if you move on then maybe you would fall in love with another person.
How can you move on from loving a guy?
You can never move on from love, it will be there forever. As time goes by, the feeling will not be as strong (most of the time) but once you love someone, you will always love them. Don't get into another relationship to "move on" wait until you are sure you want to be with someone, and not just needing someone to help you stop thinking abut someone else. Accept your love, accept the loss of the person, and move keep moving forward. Eventually you will go from thinking about them constantly to only thinking about them every hour, then every day, and eventually, only once in a great while.
What do you do when you love somebody who doesn't love you?
i would move on to someone who do love meAnswerHow do you know that this person doesn't like you. If you like them, then you should make your move. If you arent this direct, like me, then you should wait. I like someone who doesn't like me and I decided to wait for four years then make my move. Believe in yourself. You can do it. If you kinda like this person, just a little bit, then you should move on, but if you are in love with them, like me, do what I said. Good luck!!!
How do you move on from someone you love but know they deserve more?
If you love them and they love you that is enough. Stop over thinking it! You may believe they deserve more or someone better, but that isn't your call to make, it's theirs.
