How can you tell if your wife is seeing a coworker?

Answer 1

Your wife and coworker may have to work together, but it doesn't mean she is cheating with him. In today's world many people have to work O/T or go to meetings so that doesn't prove anything either.

You have three choices:

• One evening sit down with her and tell her (nicely) that you feel she is too interested in this coworker. Watch her expressions. If she shouts back in anger generally that means they are covering something up. Other signs are reddening of the face; eyes darting back and forth; pacing; moving from one foot to the other; leaving the room; stomping out of the house. Also if the phone rings in the evening more than once and you and there is no one there then you have a right to be suspicious. If she refuses to let you see her telephone listings or calls on her cell phone and she keeps the cell phone hidden.
• Follow her when she leaves the office
• Hire a detective to find out if she's cheating

Answer 2

There are some indicators to look for. For example, sudden disinterest in sex with you, acts detached, disappears for periods of time, breaks in her normal day to day routine. However, you would only be guessing, and at times guessing wrong. The only way to know for sure, is to catch her in the act, (not necessarily having sex). Many individuals hire private investigators, but that becomes expensive. Another option is to just tell her what you feel, and would like to discuss it with her through sincere, open, honest, and direct communication. However, you must prepare yourself for whatever the answer might be. It's never an easy situation.

All of the above is good,and you should also check bank statements and credit card statements ect to see if money is being spent for hotels,resturants,movie theaters or ATM withdraws from strange locations..

If the wife is home alot more than you are,you could try placing a few hidden cameras around the house such as in the living room and the bedroom and or one pointing at the driveway..they are fairly cheap and many are very small and cant be noticed easily,some can be watched by remote upto a mile or two away,some can even be watched via an internet connection from anywhere you are at and others are self-recording and you can even get them that pick up sound,so you could also listen to her talking on the phone at home.

About 90% of the time if she is cheating she is cheating at home and it wont take long to find out...Humans are creatures of habit so if you remain silent and just wait and watch for awhile you can figure out their routine,and then slip home very silently and catch them both in the act and deal with the offending invader of your marriage with a punishment you deem to be fitting...