How can you tell your best friend that she is being a witch?

Answer 1

If she always dresses in black and knows spells. If she turns you into a frog...ya she is a witch. have fun

The first question is, what makes you think your friend is (or might be) a witch?

If she/he has spoken to you about her/his chosen spiritual path, then she/he may well be a witch.

If someone else has gossiped about her/him, then I would not put a lot of credit in the possibility.

The best way to find out is to ask.

I personally have been a witch for decades and I do not go about in black, I do not wear a pentacle, I don't own a black cat, nor do I ride a broom, and although I know thousands of spells and Rituals, there is no spell to turn anyone into a frog.

Answer 2

Speech works extremely well in such situations.

A Pagan Perspective

Telling anyone, even your best friend that you have chosen a pagan spiritual path, can have its difficulties.

Like any conversation about religion, politics or sexual orientation, what you say can and often does have lasting effects on your relationship.

If your friend is open minded, and trustworthy, it should not be too difficult to swing a private conversation around to the subject.

Talk openly with your friend about what being a witch is and isn't and what being a witch means to you.

If your friend is of a strong fundamental spiritual path, you may choose not to bring the subject up, unless there is no other choice, as this may cause a rift in the friendship.

One of the major beliefs of most Pagan paths, is that you can not (or certainly should not) work to change someone else. The only changes we work are on ourselves.

This means that if your friend chooses not to support you in your choice of spiritual path, you have to respect their feelings.

I have found over the years that even the most ardent believers can eventually come to respect (if not support) your choices, if you make no effort to change their minds about their own beliefs.

That includes allowing them to believe you are putting your immortal soul at risk.

As long as you stay firm in your beliefs, and be respectful of theirs, you can only hope eventually they will reciprocate.

Answer 3

• Since your best friend is acting like a witch then be honest and tell her to her face and give her the reason why you think she is.

Answer 4

Ask her.