That's the problem; in spite of the fact that your ex clearly has told you he does not want a serious relationship with you, you continue to believe you can somehow 'win' him. You can't get your ex to realize anything, because he is the only person who can makes decisions for himself. Your ex doesn't miss you precisely because you are still in his life; he gets to enjoy the 'friend' aspects of you that he likes while not having to date you. By repeatedly attempting to get his attention and win him, you are only strengthening his opinion about the breakup. There is only one way to determine if he is willing to come to you. Stop contacting him; if you do run into him, let him see the best of you--the person that he was attracted to initially. No contact is the hardest part; if you cave in and contact him again, you will fall back into your current situation with him. Your ex either will seek you out, or you will come to realize that it's healthier for you to move on.
He might still be attached to the one who breaks his heart, and find it very hard to ever be in a serious relationship again. He will find himself again, you just have to let him be and heel his wounded heart.
Have a heart-to-heart discussion that may lead to your relationship ending. Some people realize their true wants later in life and to other people's disadvantage.
be careful because the person could be serious or might be wanting to go out with you then dump you and break your heart its happened to me before! :(
If you're in a relationship with her than that's probably why, and you've fallen for someone that you truly wanted/are wanting to be with. While if this was a breakup then you're probably regretting the breakup, and wanting to mend that relationship.
As Serious as a Heart-Attack was created in 1971.
First, having time apart can answer a few questions. Since you don't state how long you have been together, I'll just assume you might both need space. This is a good time to look at your relationship objectively and see what you both want out of it. There is an old saying. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You will find out if you truly miss each other after a separation. Not wanting a serious relationship sounds to me to be a precurser to an end. You don't say how old you are so my best advice would be do a trial separation. This way you will know what you want and where you stand when you do get back together. Either way, good luck.
If its just an average heart, that means she might like you or is just your friend. If its big or curly and curvy, that means she wants to get into a serious relationship.
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not very serious
Sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk with your partner. See what both of your ideas of a serious relationship constitutes. Neither of you are mind readers and must make your intentions clear if you are to move forward. How much time and energy are either of you willing to exert to make the relationship good for each other. You may find its time to move on or you may want to take the time to nuture the relationship. Either way you may want to talk this over and agree on it.
Well people do fall out of love. After taking several serious hits in a relationship, the love that you felt will be replaced with hate, anger and pitty. Just don't let it stay in your heart for too long. Sometimes you just wake up you're not in love any more. Maybe you're not really that serious in that relationship.
Yes, they can be.