You don't
Don't ruin his and her life.
just be a bigger man and tell them about how you r feelin about it and make make a choice ....
He calls her or expresses an interest when the husband isn't around
Only if you are sure that you will never talk to your ex girlfriend again.
You are just a side item, he will tell you anything for a good time in the sack.... what are you doing with a married man anyway?...
Yes, it is quite common for a man of any age to tell a best friend or his parents that he is going to propose to the love of his life.
I would ask you first why you can not out right tell them? Is he a boy/man that they do not approve of? Otherwise, as a mother... If my kids were to tell me they have fallen in love, this would be very welcomed and celebrated news. The beauty of love, is that we can not choose who the heart falls for. Sometimes parents do not understand your selection. But if its really LOVE, be proud and do not feel ashamed to share the news.
The issue is not being in love with a married man, we all have fantasies and desires. The issue is ACTING or your thoughts and your love for the married Man. Even if his wife was not disabled it is still wrong to have relations with a committed man.
Forget it!
He's most likely havin an affair tell his wife
im in love man
* When you truly love someone nothing should keep you apart. He is playing his wife and you like a fine violin and getting the best of both. If you think there is a future with this married man then you are sadly mistaken. Tell him to hit the bricks! You deserve better.