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Mentally or Physically, abuse is abuse. You need to realize that you are worth more, and realize what you were missing out on in meeting men or women who truly respect and appreciate you. I'm sure before this relationship, you were completely confident of yourself. Just find that again, and MOVE ON. Meet someone new, and breathe again. Do things that you like to do, and hang out with people who love you. I'm sure it's a releif to be away from that, and start making up for lost time! As I learned on Oprah, start with gratitude. It will be harder to feel this because the break up didn't happen when you were ready, but the abuser did the work of leaving for you and you are not stuck. Return to the things you enjoyed before the relationship, pursue your good friendships and things should turn around for you in time.
What else can I help you with?
Is it OK to sometimes regret the decision to leave the abuser?
Regret is a feeling. If you feel regret, and you probably will sometimes, you have no real control over that. You can repress a feeling but you cannot change it. It is always ok to feel whatever you really feel, even when it would be a bad idea to act on the feeling. We often tend to idealize the past, feel nostalgic, forget the abuser's bad traits and offending conduct and remember the "good old times".
What do you do after you get dumped?
get over them!!
My abuser dumped me and has not contacted me at all for over three weeks so should I consider him gone for good or do you think he will be back?
Don't ever count on an abuser 'gone for good.' He may well get tired of whatever he is doing or whomever he is seeing and be back! The best thing you can do is go to your local Abused Women's Center and ask for help in your situation. The counselors are there to offer good advice as to how to handle your abuser; your legal rights and if need be a safe place to go too called a 'transition house' if it is necessary.
Is there such thing as a Broken Heart or is it angxity that makes you feel sad.... how do you get over it?
well a broken heart is an expression and you can get over it by not thinking about that person who dumped you or who you dumped
What can you do to get over an ex abuser that you work with when you see him everyday?
Get counseling. And think about a new job.
How do you get over being dumped when you see him everyday?
flirt with anthor guy
Should you get back with your girfriend if shedumped you?
Um...It depends what she dumped you over?
Who dumped the other SJ Whiteley or Oli Sykes?
Sj dumped oli Sykes over artistic differences :/ but oli can hold in there. he was too good for her anyway.
My girlfriend dumped me should i take revenge?
Dont take revenge. She will hate you and you will hate yourself. People get dumped everyday and get over it. You will stop hurting soon.
What do you say when you have to testify against your abuser?
The prosecutor should go over your testimony so you can practice.
What word means to placate and isolate?
The word that comes to mind is "scapegoat." An abuser will unjustly blame the victim (aka scapegoat)for anything. The victim will in turn try to placate the abuser, trying to smoothe things over. Since all this happens in isolation from other people, the scapegoat starts feeling separate from those around him/her. The dictionary definition is a)one that bears the blame for others, or b)one that is the object of irrational hostility.
When your man don't call for over a week what does that mean?
You Got Dumped. =D
