How do guys fall in love?

Answer 1

That's like answering the age old question "describe what love is." It just happens when two people fall in love. The chemistry is right and I do believe in auras. Auras surround every living thing, and that's also makes us dislike or like a person immediately. They are using auras in medical science and under the right conditions find in what area the body is imbalanced and that something is wrong medically. When I met my second husband I was walking on clouds, and the whole world looked more colorful and I had the world at my finger tips. Even my job went better and I felt better inside. When Fridays came I could hardly wait to see him for the weekend and he and I would team up with our friends and go to night clubs and dance the night away and then go water-skiing, etc., and had the time of our lives. It's wanting to be so close to each other that even if you had sexual relations that even doesn't seem close enough. That's the only way I can describe it. I still love to see my husband after 33 years. If he's been away on a fishing trip for 3 - 4 days, the first day or 2 I love my privacy and I can do what I want to do, but after that I really miss him and feel there is a hole in our domain and I can hardly wait until he gets home. Mother Nature is always right there with you and when you're truly in love you'll know it! Good luck Marcy

Answer 2

Women and men are both physically and mentally at a different tune. How a woman falls in love is a fairly generalized but a very unastute question. Love is also a complex and psychologically abstract feeling. Often, love and hurt go hand in hand. And, there is often a delicate nurturing balance with love which can die just as quickly as it is felt. In general, men and women both feel lust first before they sense love. And, experience often means overtime one can become more perceptive of their feelings of love for someone. The sense of care and love also goes hand in hand for women. A woman can fall in love based on the way someone makes her feel about herself or about them. It can be an instant transition of feeling or happen over time. We are all individuals in the grand space of things and feel love in different ways. The way such feelings are translated are usually as a result of ones actions towards another. Women are more perceptive then men. Hence, usually have a stronger sense of their feelings. At same time, this makes them more open towards how others feel about them. Therefore, for a woman the translation of feelings of love are usually as a result of actions of another and the translation of such actions to how they feel about them as time progresses. No two women are alike, and sometimes it is two opposites attracting each other. Other times, it is two similar individuals attracting each other. But, it is usually the way an individual plays their cards with a woman that allows them to translated and transfer such feels in a more clear way towards love. It is also very easy for women to go in and out of love for one individual to another. But, they also have levels of translating their feelings as a result of their instinctive nature. For men, most things are black and white. But, for women, the whole idea of love is a grey area and it essentially means that in order for a woman to feel a sense of love, one has to provide them a feedback loop of set actions and reactions that would provide them the chemical balance to shift their feelings or atleast give them the opportunity to decide on their own. It is a bit like playing tic tac toe, someone has to start somewhere and then to nurture a set of feelings. Love also takes many forms depending on types of relationships.

Answer 3

Falling in love can be engineered, but it rarely happens that way. Genuine spontaneous falling in love starts when the two of you "click". It then ignites if the two of you respond to each other's biological chemistry, or pheromones. Does he smell good to you? Does her scent drive you wild? It continues to grow as you spend time with each other and share experiences together, especially if you can help each other through a difficult situation. Falling in love is really a biochemical event that can keep you awake, kill your appetite, and turn you into a sex-craved maniac. This biochemistry is very exciting, like a rollercoaster ride, and is called "phase I". Phase I usually starts calming down after 3-6 months. If you have real things in common, your relationship will survive into Phase II which is a deeper kind of caring. If your relationship breaks up during phase I or shortly thereafter, then the attraction was primarily physical and you should just move on.

Answer 4

Well, we just took a vote in my office. I am the only male, there are three females and all of us came to the same conclusion. You cannot force yourself to love someone. Either the chemistry, the connection, etc. is there or its not. Evidently if he is your boyfriend you must know him for a time period, and if you do not love him now, your not going to. 'Some say you can learn to love someone. We say no! You can learn to appreciate, admire, or love someone as a person. However, you cannot learn to love someone as in "true love" a life's partner.

Answer 5

When you can look into each others eyes and know that your right for them. When your just hanging out with them and neither one of you say a word but your still the happiest person when your with them. you love them for who they are and not what they look like.

Answer 6

the boy gets to laugh with her and hang out at first if they have fun they do it over and over till he becomes adicted with her

Answer 7

In my personal opinion it depends on who you are. Try to get to know someone and you might surprise yourself you may have some things in common.

Answer 8

they feel like if it is simply impossible to live without the person they are in love with

Answer 9

Love is a choice. God will present you with people and you must choose. Love is not just a feeling because you do not always feel the same way two days in a row.