You can always start over from scraps.
Ask for forgiveness, and try to get his trust back.
To help you further, we have to know the source of your problems, a professional marriage counselor can help you.
get a divorce because chances are if he isn't allready he will start cheating on you
If he wants to start again maybe you should too. What age are you? Do you need him? How do you really feel? Maybe you'd be happier. No answer is going to be good for you right now. It's something you have to decide for yourself. Make sure to talk every aspect of it out with him before you make a decision.
Many wives have abandoned husbands over the years. An attorney can file divorce papers and the husband will be granted a divorce.
You may need to taalk this over with your family as a support group. This fella obviously does not have your best interests in mind and if you continue to try and stay with him, it is going to become ever more abusive even possibly, physically abusive. You need to face the issue head on. If he cheated for that long and says he wants a divorce....then...he wants a divorce.
yes
You divorce and get custody over your kids or just get full custody!
I'd say it means she's over you or wants to be over you. Putting you and her husband in the same space is an interesting way to attempt to prove it.
All of that is covered in the new procedures of Washington State Divorce Court. Most Book store carry Do It Yourself Divorce Books that will have all the guidlines according to the state in which you live.
Then I think that your marriage might be over with. I am not for sure what you are asking for in your question. Maybe you and your husband need to sit down and talk things out. See if he wants a divorce or if he is using you. I wish you the best of luck and may God Bless you:)
you can actually sue him and the chick he's affair with. Also I don't suggest a divorce. You promised to God that you are married with ONE person and I suggest going to marriage counselor before and start over and hopefully your husband wont go back to his ways and see you as the good woman you truly are.
just say can we start all over and if he doesnt agree then just make a better move ?
It would probably be a good idea to ask your husband why he is going to these sites. If the answer is that he is looking to divorce you then couples counseling would be a wise next step. If your husband is unwilling to work through the problems then I would oblige him with the divorce and take myself to counseling to help deal with the pain. But keep in mind, if everything seems to be going well, he may be looking at these sites for an entirely explainable reason. Take it upon yourself to go to websites with great divorce lawyers. Ask him if he wants a divorce and then try to talk it over to see if it's possible to salvage the relationship, if that's what you want.