They dance around and act like an idiot then one of them will run away and he gets the other one!!
Its rather enjoying to see a wife harrass a woman who is cheating with her husband. Most of the time its the other way around. I guess the mistress is crying to you about it am I right,she's getting what she deserves and your wife should kick your butt to the curb so you can move in with the mistress. You and your mistress deserve each other, maybe your wife will find a man who really cares about her. ANSWER: Or we could turn it around, the mistress is the one harassing the wife..
Tell them both what you did and get delt with.
not a good idea
I would guess the reason why could be that he wants to keep his mistress and his wife at the same time. he doesn't want to loose you and at the same time he needs to make amends to his wife, so if the wife wanted a divorce, he will not loose money because of their children Just imagine if he can keep his wife and if he can't have sex with her, he knows where to go, you as the mistress. And for a mistress, she don't have the rights to wonder why her married man wanted to save his marriage.
Possibly, if he thinks he can get away with it. The better question might be, "If he was caught, and yet did not take that opportunity to leave his wife, why would a mistress have anything more to do with him?"
You will be in a lot of trouble with both the wife and the mistress, and possibly the police.
I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends). There are different situations: a) If the mistress knows he is married; b) The mistress has no idea that he is married; c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you. b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife. WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.
I takes 2 to tango. Forget the mistress and concern yourself with your marriage and why your husband is sleeping around.
Firstly the wife knowing very well her husband has a mistress should not be having a sexual relationship with him and knowing full well he uses the same toys on the wife as the mistress is disrespectful and disgusting. The wife needs to get a spine and stand up to her husband and tell him he gives up the mistress and goes to marriage counseling or he packs his bags; gets out and the wife files for divorce. Considering what the husband is doing he isn't worth keeping anyway.
she meant that it is because the wife of a cheating husband is trying to do such things that the mistress of his husband realize that what she did was wrong. ANSWER: I think the wife is telling the mistress that she can have him, so she will not have to deal with pain and bad memories. And letting him go is her way to forgive him.
Yes a husband CAN love a mistress but he CAN'Ttruly love his wife as well. If he truly loved his wife then he wouldn't need to have a mistress on the side. True love isn't spread around (other than family and friends) but able to be given to one other person and ONLY one other person, otherwise it is just lust.
You will have to divorce your wife.