How do you ask your boyfriend for a date?

Answer 1

1. Make sure they know who you are. If your crush has no idea you exist, it's going to be harder to attract him. Try to get to know each other. You can do this by getting to be pally with his mates, joining a club he's in, or asking someone who knows him to introduce you two. If your crush is in your class, talk to him a little. You could comment on the teacher, the work you have to do, or make a joke when he's listening. It's scary, but you'll feel good once you make a move.
2. Find Common Ground It's easier to start conversations when you both have found something to talk about. You might possibly consider taking up some of his interests, but don't become a whole different person just for a boy. It's definitely not worth it. If you have no common interests, don't freak out. If you've never watched a TV show before that he's practically addicted to, just tell him, ask him about it. Instant conversation.
3. Befriend him. Okay, now everyone who has ever played Sims 2 or ever lived in reality knows you have to be friends before you get the whole "crush feeling" in return. You can't just say hi and bam, he's making out with you; you gotta do a little more work than that (but if that does happen then hey, no complaints...). Try finding some common interests (above section ^) to start a conversation. If that doesn't work, you could always start out on a universal based conversation (i.e. weather {which usually isn't very original}, a crazy thing that happened that day, presidential elections, assignments, how much you all hate a certain teacher...). And if all else fails, you could always just ask for a pencil or some paper and go from there. Maybe after you've gotten to know him a little better, you could joke with him or tease him, possibly even flirt with him. But don't get too ahead of yourself; they might feel awkward if a girl they barely know started flirting hard-core with him.
4. Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable. Don't feel pressured to dress just like all the other girls, don't concern yourself with whether you have on the brand name that's popular, don't worry if your hair isn't perfectly polished. If you feel comfortable, you will project your best self, and people will feel comfortable around you.
5. Try to Keep Clean. Cleanliness is close to godliness. I know it may seem silly but you might want to avoid smelling like last month's salami in front of him. You don't have to be flowery, clean-freakishly-fresh all the time, just try to shower daily, wear deodorant, possibly put on some nice lotion. But don't over-do it. The poor kid might have Asthma, and heaven forbid you give him an attack from your ooh-la-la fancy-smelling french perfume while trying to impress him. But yes, smelling nice, or at least presentable, is actually pretty attractive.
6. Be yourself. Seriously. You don't have to change who you are for a boy, especially just a crush, no matter how amazing, cute, or funny he is. Giving a person that much control over you is not healthy (it's actually a little frightening, to be honest...), and it will probably end up hurting you. If your crush doesn't like you well then....deal with it and just move on. It might be hard, but there are plenty more fish, and if he can't see how amazing you are, he doesn't deserve you. But you don't have to change yourself to conform to a boy's standards, or anyone else's for that matter. But sometimes it is necessary so do what you feel is right.
7. Be clear on your intentions. Nothing is more tragic than the oh-so-cliche' friend-likes-friend-who-doesn't-like-her-that-way teenage drama. Be sure that you aren't considered "one of the guys" or just his "bud". Of course you have to get to know him first, and you may possibly just gain an amazing friend in the process,(which is all right, some pursued crushes could turn out to be one of your best friends) but be a little more flirty with him, in a way that you're sure one of his "buds" wouldn't be. (Ex: maybe give him a hug, a playful peck on the cheek, play with his hair....)

[edit] Tips

• Don't be easy. Not impressive, and it'll give you a bad reputation, try to be yourself and be open towards your feelings.
• If you still haven't gotten him yet, don't be hyper or weird when he's around. It'll only make him think you're a weirdo.
• If you are going to make a joke, make sure it's funny and not cheesy. Try to make it on a subject he will be interested in and he will laugh at.
• If you make a lame joke and he laughs, he is probably interested in you. No one who is interested in someone wants to risk insulting them.
• Laugh at his jokes, but don't overdo it; no one likes a giggling ninnie. When you laugh he will look at you, so don't try and seem fake or too flirty.
• Be friendly! Remember to be positive and ask him simple questions like how he's doing, and take an interest in what he says.
• When he makes a joke, don't slap him, just lightly touch his arm when you laugh. Depending on the guy, he will probably get closer to you.
• Slutiness is not empowering. As mentioned above, wear clothes that make you comfortable, not clothes that your momma would slap you upside the head for.
• Try to make eye contact. If you're ultra shy, it's okay, but eye contact shows that you are feeling very open and comfortable. Staring at someone, however, connotates that you are a stalker.
• Try not to flirt with other guys around him. Jealousy does not a good feeling make. It might lower his self esteem and interest in you depending on the guy. But then again, other guys might try to meet the challenge; overall, though, making someone jealous isn't a good thing.
• Send him a friend request on Facebook or Myspace. Trust me, this might work. I added my crush, and now we talk for hours.
• Social networking sites like Facebook are great, because you have longer to think about what you say, and if you don't like what you've written, you can type something else.
• Be hard to get don't just say ok and go out with him you have to make him wont you and if he doesn`t chase you he dosen`t like you as much as you thought he did.

[edit] Warnings

• Don't allow yourself to put too much time into one guy. Sure, he may be cute, make you laugh, or whatever, but you have your whole life to devote to love if that's what you choose. Think about what you may be missing now, in this moment!
• Take it slowly. Don't be over outgoing.
• Avoid being clingy, naggy, overly dependent on attention, and so on. Guys are attracted to a challenge, so tease them a bit.
• Don't be annoying.
• Don't stare. Just glance. If he's looks way too absolutely cute, stare at him for only a few seconds. If he catches you, either smile shyly, or look down, blush, and then smile shyly. It looks very cute, and attractive.
• Don't act stupid. I cannot convey how idiotic a girl looks when playing dumb for her crush. Boys can tell if you're just playing dumb, and usually it's a turn-off.
• Try to act normally. I know this is a lot harder than it looks but make sure you don't laugh too much or get over-excited and do something really stupid; you'll regret it in the long run.
• Don't lose your identity. You have to first think about yourself.
• Realize that all crushes are temporary and if this one doesn't work out, there'll be another on the way
• Don't be a different person once his friends get around, he'll notice your sudden change in mood or personality and think your a fake

Answer 2

First, you ask her to go out to a park, or go skating, or offer to help her with a school subject and then ask her to someplace private to go, then ask her First, you ask her to go out to a park, or go skating, or offer to help her with a school subject and then ask her to someplace private to go, then ask her

Answer 3

anyway just ask ur crush out and if he/she says no just forget about he/she and move on to another hott one ;) For me,i would ask him and if he says yes then go and say ok.Then walk away with a smile.If he says no,Walk to his best friend and ask them if he likes you b/c he might ask you later.It really depends on the setting.

Answer 4

you say..

hi, I've seen you around lately..erm..are you doing anything on .... night.. well wanna meet up&catch something to eat..

- or come back to my place

-or go watch a film

where you go or what you do is totally up to you:)!

Answer 5

Ask him directly im sure you'll get a good response, unless the guy is more handsome or richer than you (the caller)...(hopefully a girl)... creepy

Answer 6

FIRST YOU SHOW YOUR HUMOR. AND THEN BRING THEM DAILY FLOWERS AND CHOCOLATE(OR OTHER). THEN WHEN THEY START FLIRTING BACK ASK HER OUT.

Answer 7

If your really good friends

Start by asking her if she's doing anything tonight because you were thinking about going to the park and have a moonlit dinner

Answer 8

Erm, touchy subject. It changes between people. Make sure you first establish a good relationship with someone. Then I guess, go for it