How do you attract a older guy?

Answer 1

I am 13 and I like a guy that is 14. He is in my school and I see him very often. I REALLY like him, but he is a grade ahead of me.

How can I get his attention??smile at him.

at that age loads of people will go out with each other with a one year age differance, be yourself and try showing him you exist... find out if you have friends in common or if your siblings know each other.. passing on "messages" from other people is a great way to get people to notice you in school.

Answer 2

The same way as you do with a younger one. they have the same hormones and are constantly thinking of the same things as anyone else. It also depends on what you are trying to achieve with your flirtation. Are you trying to titillate him or are you trying to get him into bed?

Answer 3

obviously this all depends on the individuals, age difference and the type of people you like or they like....

there is so fixed or perfect answer for this but there a few things that you will need to do :

1: make sure you spend time with him and make sure that he is comfortable around you and feels at ease.

2: find out his interests and hobbies by talking and try to find out things he likes to talk about, having things in common can be a major advantage when chasing guys :)

3: try to base conversations around subjects you know and do not try to impress him by talking about complicated things, most guys old or young just like to talk about simple things that they enjoy : trying to remember names of people he talks about ; these are great for starting conversations "how is ... right now have you seen them lately..." etc

4: BE YOURSELF, he will notice if you are purely trying to impress him and will flick you away.

and finally 5: take your time, he will need to get used to seeing you often and feeling good while your with him, he needs time to establish a firm link to be able to envisage a relationship, once you feel that he is completely at ease with you then you can go for the kill.

remember that in general older guys won't complain when a young woman wants to hook up, so play the cards right and TAKE YOUR TIME and a passion is almost sure to grow inside him.

Answer 4

I'm 15 and there's this guy I really like but he's 26. I know I'm underage but I really like him. We flirt a bit when I go over to his house with my brother but that's all it ever is, it never leads to anything. I don't think I really want to date him I just want get his full attention if you know what I mean? Please help. P.s. don't answer this question unless you're going to give me actual advice and not just a lecture on how I'm too young. Thanks.

Answer

You may not be on his radar just because the gap of life experience is huge. As you get into your 20s, and are still visiting with your brother, maybe there's a chance if you don't get carried away now.

Answer 5

just be yourself if you really like him and want to go out with him then maybe just ask. if you are more patient then start off being his friend then make him like you.

Answer 6

you act older than your age. like act more mature and flirt but not over the top.