How do you break up with a clingy guy?

Answer 1

Breakup at either his place or a semi private locale, somewhere you can leave if things get out of hand. Be clear that this is a breakup; don't say vague things about, "needing space," or "taking a break,". Do not go into details about why you are ending the relationship; simply say you no longer have the feelings for him you need to be in a relationship. Also be clear that you feel it's best if you two did not have contact with each other, so that it will be easier for both of you to move on. Accept that his feelings will be hurt, no matter how you word things.

You shouldn't be mean, but be firm about not contacting him and ignoring any contacts of his. If he tends to be clingy, any sign you give him (responding to his calls/emails/texts or going out of your way to say hello) may be construed as you still having an interest in him. Don't give him false hope.

Answer 2

Sit him down and explain, without offending him, all of the things he is doing that you disagree with. Tell him why it isn't working out and what he is doing wrong. Don't be immature about breaking it off if you want him to learn a good lesson and possibly change in the future.

Answer 3

it helps to keep a bit of a distance from him for a while. then, text him and tell him that you are better off as friends. before you say that, however, make sure that you don't want to be with them ever again! if not, it could be hard to get back together. be prepared to receive a text from him with a long speech about how he loves you. in the end, he should accept the fact that you don't love him. if not, don't talk to him for a while!