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You have to focus on yourself.. Yes, it's going to be normal that you will feel sorry and feel the guilt, its because you loved the person, cared for the person so much and you have sacrificed a lot for the relationship to work. Focus on the main reason why you are breaking up with him(N). You are breaking up because there is nothing left in you to love him, you feel used, exhausted and drained with everything he is doing to you. It's the repeated sorrys and please forgive me and I'm not gonna do it again, I cant live without you and I love you so much stuff he is telling you. Come to think of it its a trap, it's for you to give into him manipulating you again. If he says your soulmates? howcome you don't feel that way? If he says I will die without you? Howcome he is not making you happy? If he dies without you.. then he'll do everything to make you feel loved, secure and happy. If he doesn't then think of his intentions why he said that. Don't be weak let you mind rule over your feelings. The issue isn't about how you feel for each other but how you live your life with each other. Relationships should be give and take if you are just giving and not getting in return then there is something wrong with it. Ask yourself series of questions like Am I going to be happy if I stay? What will be my future with him? How much damage has he caused in me? In my life? Weight things.. If possible try to list down the pro's and cons that had happened to you the entire time you were with him, cross out the pros that doesn't exist anymore and analize your current self. From there you'd be able to see the bigger picture that you need to let go because you need to love yourself. Healthy life is loving yourself first making yourself happy before sharing it with others. There's a lot in this world that we can do instead of just getting stuck with a self centered person. Trust me. Letting go is one of the most difficult thing to do. But, if you believe that there is a brighter future ahead of you that you are not able to attain because of your current situation. Then you have to move forward without him, don't look back be strong and have faith. Don't be impatient and let your feelings rule. If you have to cry every night then do it if your scared to be sad then call onto people who can be there for you like your family and your friends. Share to them what had happened to you so that they can give you the support that you need and the right advice. Faith and patience that's what you'll need after leaving him.
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ideal love is something we're taught by Disney and hallmark to express without thinking, so i wouldn't really take it seriously. saying he'd die, or threatening to hurt himself is a sign there may be something really wrong with him though, like he may be histrionic. just give the guy closure and move on with your life guilt free.
What else can I help you with?
How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused).You cannot have a relationship with an abuser without feeling abused.
What dos a narcissist do when he ends the relationship?
They leave without feeling anything. most likely they already have an auxiliary supply ready to tap in to (the next sucker). People are objects to a narcissist, so to them it is like buying a new cell phone and throwing the old one in a junk drawer and forgetting about it.
Can a narcissist handle rejection?
No because rejection means you know who and what they really are and know all their true self. They think they are god and that one cannot live without them. They believe that you are the one who needs them, when in reality it is the other way around. Once a narcissist always a narcissist. They cannot change
Will a narcissist treat a wealthy woman better than he treated his past relationships?
A narcissist is not likely to treat a wealthy woman better than he treated his past relationships. The reason for this is because he can't truly change his ways without help.
Why does your ex-narcissist give you the silent treatment after they email you asking how you are doing and you respond with excitement re the success of your business?
My feeling is that the ex was not too happy to hear that you had moved on. Their preferred answer would have been that - "your life has been miserable, without him!"
What item would a narcissist always carry with him or her?
His cellphone ! they would never be without a mirror!!!!!!!!!
What is unfeeling?
It is a feeling without feeling or not caring
Why is the Fentanyl patch used for drug withdrawls?
Because it will keep you from withdrawling without feeling "High" from the opiates .
You can cut hair without feeling pain because?
There are no nerves in the Keratin cells that make up your hair. They're basically dead cells. This is why you can cut your hair without feeling a thing, but pulling on your hair can cause pain.
Can you live without temperature?
It's pretty much impossible to live without temperature, because no matter where you are, you are feeling some sort of warmth, or coldness.
What could cause you to be unable to drink any alcohol without feeling sick to your stomach?
You could be unable to not drink because you didn't feel that you could go without not feeling sick or not sick, depending on the amount of alcohol that you did or didn't drink while feeling well enough to drink but may or may not have decided to not be unable to without feeling one way or the other. I hope this wasn't the most unclear answer for you.
Why does a narcissist rather go too a massuese?
Because they pay them so they are in control they just do what they want how they want without any emotion towards the masseuse which for the N is just an object to fulfill their lust
