How do you deal with someone who hates me?

Answer 1

I think the best example of how to do that is the life of Jesus Christ. He loved the unlovable. He spent His life reaching out to those who were rejected. He even prayed for His enemies. The only way I know of to love those who hate you is by the power of God, realizing that God loved us when we were still enemies to Him. We have to see those who hate us as human beings, often they are people who have a lot of pain in their lives and they need us to reach out to them with the love of God. I know you didn't ask specifically for a religion-related answer, but this is the only answer I know of for this question.

Answer 2

Well, a girl's feelings towards you can't change what you love about her. Her hating you (if she really does) doesn't change her person so therefor it doesn't change what you may like her for. I'd make sure that she really does indeed hate you though. I know a lot of girls who just act that way, like when a boy annoys a girl or is rude to her because he likes her. I guess it's due to them being confused and not really knowing how to interact with the object of their affections.

Answer 3

Easily, unfortunately. It happens constantly. Love and those emotions aren't very logical. The questions you should be asking yourself is, do I really LOVE her or is this just lust? Do you really want her because of the deeper things in her personality, or are you infatuated because of her looks? These are very important questions. Now if you really feel you love her, and it's real, then you should ask a few more questions.

The main one you need to ask is, WHY does she hate you? Is it something you did wrong to her? Is it the way you look? Do you need to improve your looks by losing weight or being more healthy or clean? Do you need to become a better person? Or maybe get to know her or take interest in things she likes so you can better understand her as a person. Show her you're not going anywhere, that your feelings are real, and you're willing to be a friend as long as it takes. Let her know you're willing to change and by loving her you will always give her anything. Of course, don't be a stalker about it! True love is willing to do anything. If you really love her you will respect all that she says, even if it's that she hates you and doesn't want to see you. This may be hard, but just know that you will be fine. Make it a goal to find someone worthy of your feelings. This isn't the only girl on earth for you. And if you are stuck on her, then give her time. Maybe with patience she will come running. :) Good luck

Answer 4

Yes. It is completely possible. However, it is extremely hard to live through it. If they hate you for a certain reason that you are not aware of, confront the person and ask why the hate you. If it's not fixable, I suggest to simply move on.

Frankly, one has nothing to do with the other. Honestly, there are a number of people I love who hate me. It changes nothing about how I feel, except to give me the drive to do what I can to change their minds.

Answer 5

If they just hate you and are not doing anything to you or causing you any problem, ignore them. What they think of you should be of no importance to you.

Answer 6

try get over them and maybe they will want you back :) if you love that person too much..break it to them???And if they still don't accept..try get over that person.