How do you deal with the fact that your husband has a relationship with another woman?

Answer 1

If neither one of you knew and he received a suprise that he is a father to another child..what can u do? NOTHING..it's not the child's fault...and i think he should take responsibility for this child and you as his wife or girlfriend should allow him to do so. It's only what you would want him to do if you were the other woman.

Answer 2

This is a sensitive issue.

If the child was conceived when you were not together, you must overcome any issues you have about its existence. Remember that it is not the kid's fault. Be the best step mom ever!

If the child was conceived while your husband was cheating on you, you'll need counseling in any event. If your husband won't go with you, that's a bad sign. Still, remember, it's not the kid's fault. Treat the kid like every kid deserves to be treated: with love. Encourage your husband to be a real father.

You have to decide if you still want to be with your husband if he cheated on you. That's a separate issue. If he will go to counseling and stop cheating, you have a chance. If he won't, you should plan how to leave him.

ANSWER:

Wow this is a bit serious, complicated in a lot of ways. If the man I married other woman got pregnant, I will let him go because the child didn't have anything to do with the betrayal he did me. That child was conceive with love and affection to the other woman, not because he was turn on and excited because hiding is fun. No matter if the man is married or single, that man needs to make amends to that child that was conceive, period.

Answer 3

These COULD be the signs of your husband seeing another woman: Working late, but if you phone on occasion he's not available at work Phone calls and if you answer the person hangs up Your husband is dressing nicer and keeping himself more tidy Leaves the house often and doesn't tell you where he's going Is constantly late for dinner Has phone numbers in his wallet without a name next to it When he gets home he can smell of perfume Possible lip stick on his shirt, or skin Breaks dinner engagements with you often Makes too many excuses for working late Takes off in the car and doesn't let you know where he is going Please be aware that many men can work late and that's exactly where they are. Sometimes husbands are tired from work and may seem to lose interest in your sex life. Some husbands (40 and up) could be going through male menopause and become moody, somewhat depressed, lethargic around the home and a general disinterest in everyday life at home and with the children. It's best to pick a time alone and come right out and ask him if he is having an affair. Of course, he may well deny it (most men do unless caught red-handed) but you can also add: "If you aren't having an affair what is wrong?" If he becomes agitated and doesn't give you a straight answer then say, "Well, if you aren't having an affair, everything is fine then I don't like the fact you aren't even working on our marriage." List your grievances with him and don't judge him, but try to work them out. Don't let him off the hook! Also, be sure you aren't of a jealous nature and afraid he is having an affair when he isn't. If you can't talk together about your problems, then start! A marriage isn't anything unless you can communicate. If he refuses then pack your bags and go visit family for a week, but be sure you tell him where you are going and just tell him you want some "time out" for yourself. This may jolt him into trying harder in your marriage. Good luck Marcy