How do you discipline disrespectful children?

Answer 1

I am not saying this as a joke but being serious. Have you ever seen the show Super Nanny? If so, then you need to call the show or go online and see if she can come and help you out. God Bless:) From my experience working with families and problem children, I have learned that good parenting leading to "good" children needs to start at a very early age. It is difficult and time consuming in the begining, but if you put in the time and effort from the start, the following years will be much easier, less stressful on you and the child(ren) and more enjoyable for all involved. I have found that the MOST important things are STUCTURE, CONSISTENCY, SELF-CONTROL and DISCIPLINE. MOST important is to understand that discipline DOES NOT include yelling, threatening OR hitting. You must clearly establish that you are the adult and in contol and they are the child and not the boss. The shortest and easiest way to explain this is actually quite simple. Good behavior gets verbal praise and "rewards", and "bad" (inappropriate) behavior does NOT get rewarded. People reading this may say "SURE", but suprisingly enough MANY parents DO NOT follow these simple guidelines. Use "spontaneous" positive verbal praise and rewards; don't ignore good behavior and only react to bad behavior. Act swiftly and firmly to bad behavior. One BIG asset is to use a calm, controlled voice; very matter of factly.(This can be VERY difficult, but it's very important.) Children learn very quickly and are very perceptive and smart. When a child misbehaves, it is very important not to give warning after warning after warning; or threat after threat: this makes it nothing but a joke. If, after a calm warning, a child does not comply, use what I call "spontaneous goodies". Simply, those who are acting appropriately (mom, dad, other kids,etc...) get a special treat. An ice cream cone, a trip to the Dollar Store, or any desireable. The innapropriate child does not get the "goodie". (SORRY!) Many people reading this will say "SURE!" The kid will have a meltdown and cry and scream. Deal with it once or twice or even three times and I guarantee the kid will learn very quickly and you will gain control (if done following the above guidelines) If not, eveyone will be miserable and you can look forward to crying, screaming, tantruming and more for the next 15 years. Do it right in the begining, bite the bullet and stay calm and in control and you will have many years of SMOOTH SAILING! (REALLY) I really hope someone out there actually tries this, finds how simple it really is, and has a happy, disciplined child and family!

Answer 2

You should take care of the following things

1. Parents must discipline themselves first.

2. Instructions must be communicated in positive manner.

3. The child must be capable to correctly receive, understand and apply the instructions.

The bigger part of discipline is reward, encouragement, talking, listening, respecting, understanding and much more.

First try to convince him by telling what good things he has done. Make him feel you really love him and care for him. After that slowly show the mistakes he did.

It' very bad to be rude at the very first time. Be patient, you are on the right way.

AnswerChild Discipline

Learning how to effectively discipline your child is an important skill for all parents. Children have to be taught discipline. They are not born with it. You must be consistent and must train your child to obey through diligent and careful discipline and precise instruction. The rules cannot be changed from day to day. They have to be the same each and every day. Discipline is not the same as punishment. Instead, discipline has to do more with teaching.

Following are the goals of discipline: To teach a child right from wrong, how to respect the rights of others, which behaviors are acceptable and which are not; To set limits and correct misbehavior with a goal of helping to develop a child who feels secure and loved, is self-confident, self-disciplined and knows how to control his impulses; To raise a child who does not get overly frustrated with the normal stresses of everyday life.

Firmly enforce boundaries indicating what behavior is acceptable and what is not.

Children are keen observers. When they see you doing things a certain way, they are going to imitate you.

Answer 3

if he is always naughty then tell him that you will take him somewhere nice like a restaurant or his favourite shop in a few days. and then if he is naughty within those few days then take the privileg away he may sulk but he will learn do the same thing but say if you are good we will take you there then if he is take him there or something if he is expecting something one week like hes expecting you to say lets go somewhere then starts to cry or sulk because you don't take a toy or his favourite game or even his tv games console then hell learn

Answer 4

Yelling, screaming, or even cussing is considered domestic violence by the U.S Department of Child Service, and it is very illegal and will not be tolerated. Any physical abuse, like slapping, punching, or pokings in painful manner, is considered

2nd degree child abuse, and calls for at least ten years in federal prison. The right way you should discipline your child is a clean talk, and punishment should not require screaming, yelling, cussing or child abuse. The child has every right to call D-Fax, or even a social worker. You should love your kids and show that even if they are breaking laws, in the house or in public. They are your only kids you will ever have, so have fun with them!

Answer 5

If you want to discipline your child then do the tree strikes trick. 1. If the act bad ask them politely to stop. 2. Of they keep up the negative behavior tell them if they do it again then you will take something away (like TV, Video Games, cell phone, ext.). 3. If they act bad the third time take that item away until (If it was something small) they apologize and (if you are a parent) give you a hug and a kiss or 2 (if it was something really bad) keep it away from them for a couple of days.

Answer 6

hands on personally Training them on practicing good attitude